"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do u get in the mood for convo?

rocco

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how do u get into the mood before conversating with a girl.?

Like for example...

I got her #, and am about to make the first call to her. but the problem is, I just got back from work (I work 9 to 5), and was exhausted.. now im trying to get into the right attitude before I call her..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PerfectCircle

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Im still in the mood to talk after work. So I cant relate to what your probelm is.

If your nervous or something. U could try taking a shot of alcohol to calm your nerves.
 

Snow Plowman

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Pump yourself up

Play some music and do some retarded dances lol, then after multi task while on the phone. Play video games while talk to her, look at videos online while you talk to her, clean your house while you talk to her.

That way you aren't focused solely on talking and what to say.
 

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I think about the last girl I had sex with and how much she liked me and the fun we had :) that usually gets me in very sexual happy mood and girls respond great to to it.
 

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PerfectCircle said:
Im still in the mood to talk after work.


There it is gentlemen. The secret. Be in the mood throughout the day, even during the hours of slave labor from 9 to 5.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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