“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
How do u choose your girls?
- Thread starter Dee-Zy
- Start date
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
I have just been talking to everyone but i guess
once i realize that i have her attension, ill check out the body, make sure it is tight, then start convo, check her face out,
gotta get a good look b/c some chicks are good from far but far from good
then if they seem nice, interesting, easy going then ill take it to the next step and get the number
once i realize that i have her attension, ill check out the body, make sure it is tight, then start convo, check her face out,
gotta get a good look b/c some chicks are good from far but far from good
then if they seem nice, interesting, easy going then ill take it to the next step and get the number
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Eyes...I look deep into their eyes. Physical attraction is a must though!
M.A.C.
M.A.C.
To aproach or to consider for LTR?
To approach, she has to be the. . . calm type. Give out a vibe of being calm. Calm, not boring etc, just calm. And, ofcourse, attractive to my eye.
Women that I approach are usually the type I consider for LTR.
To approach, she has to be the. . . calm type. Give out a vibe of being calm. Calm, not boring etc, just calm. And, ofcourse, attractive to my eye.
Women that I approach are usually the type I consider for LTR.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
There's a little system and a process of elimination involved...
First and foremost, for me... what does her body look like? Is everything in the right place and proportioned? It is important that you get what you want. No one should settle for anything less of what they want. Trust me, don't waste your time if you are not going to be happy later, you will kick yourself for it down the road. Now if you just want to get some, do what you want to do, for me, I ain't that pressed. Ok... If her body is tight, and fit, then I'll check out everything else. If she doesn't pass the body part, I'm on to the next one, period. I'm talking T & A here... I don't care if the t*ts are fake, they real in my hands. Got to have a phat ass..gotta have it. T & A, nice long legs, tight fit body, then everything else is next. Face, personality, intelligence, money, they all come in after the body check. Call me shallow or whatever but, I've settled for what I could get before and I'll never do it again, PERIOD. Never settled for what you can get, it really isn't worth it. I decided, I would not settle for nothing short of what I wanted, and that's what I got, and I couldn't be more content now. Don't short change yourself if you can. AGAIN, life's too short to settle for second best. Might as well have fun now, the body and looks ain't gonna stay forever so.... Body, then brains and personality. If you find the body, then check out her brains. If she ain't got none, then BYE. Body, then brains. Brains are just as important, it's just for me, the body has to come first. ... when you are too old to be hanging from the ceiling, that's when the personality, and everything else becomes more prominent. If you can find that lucky combo.... don't let her go, they are very popular, and tough to call your won, because any guy with any sense of intelligence, will want her for his own. Good luck.
First and foremost, for me... what does her body look like? Is everything in the right place and proportioned? It is important that you get what you want. No one should settle for anything less of what they want. Trust me, don't waste your time if you are not going to be happy later, you will kick yourself for it down the road. Now if you just want to get some, do what you want to do, for me, I ain't that pressed. Ok... If her body is tight, and fit, then I'll check out everything else. If she doesn't pass the body part, I'm on to the next one, period. I'm talking T & A here... I don't care if the t*ts are fake, they real in my hands. Got to have a phat ass..gotta have it. T & A, nice long legs, tight fit body, then everything else is next. Face, personality, intelligence, money, they all come in after the body check. Call me shallow or whatever but, I've settled for what I could get before and I'll never do it again, PERIOD. Never settled for what you can get, it really isn't worth it. I decided, I would not settle for nothing short of what I wanted, and that's what I got, and I couldn't be more content now. Don't short change yourself if you can. AGAIN, life's too short to settle for second best. Might as well have fun now, the body and looks ain't gonna stay forever so.... Body, then brains and personality. If you find the body, then check out her brains. If she ain't got none, then BYE. Body, then brains. Brains are just as important, it's just for me, the body has to come first. ... when you are too old to be hanging from the ceiling, that's when the personality, and everything else becomes more prominent. If you can find that lucky combo.... don't let her go, they are very popular, and tough to call your won, because any guy with any sense of intelligence, will want her for his own. Good luck.
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Inlaw...now that is a good system, but what happens if she is all that but sucks in bed! Or she can't handle it! *squirm squirm*
M.A.C.
M.A.C.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
Bottomline is, life is short, settle for nothing short of the best. Sometimes they are willing to learn, and be adventurous in time, sometimes not... there are exceptions.
For me, you can almost get a feel as just how freaky they will go. Usually, from my experience, a chic with a smoking body, and ok face, with brains, is usually pretty wild with the sex play, and the ones with the model looks, are pretty reserved no matter how much you get them off. There's always exceptions of course. I met, and dated an incredible, INCREDIBLE, looking woman in the past, and felt that she would be pretty good in bed. Only to find out after we got naked that she was into the bondage, cuffs, and saran wrapping... I got totally turned off after she broke out the bondage magazines. Another one I met, she was cute as hell, we both got really drunk and I was able to get some anal, which was cool.
she said I was her first anal experience, which was pretty hip.... then again, I've dated hot looking babes, who refused to bob the knob, which is the least they can do, THE least.... there's exceptions. ...but usually the ones with the girl next door looks, and hot bodies, they are my favorites.
They say, everyone has a double in life. Then my gf's double is Bambi Woods, ...a pregnant looking Bambi Woods that is.
I mentioned that, go for what you want out of a woman... this may sound crude but, when I was married, my ex-wife never gobbled the goo.. I mean, I gobbled hers and women c*m A LOT when you eat them. I swore that I would find me a woman that would have no problem with gobbling the goo..... and when I met my gf, I thought she is too good looking to do that. Our first sexual experience was her giving me some love downstairs. As always in the past, I had to let my ex-wife know when I was about to blow a load.. so when that state of euphoria swept over me, I let her know, she did not budge, she took it like a pro, and I was in heaven. She did spit though...I knew, she was the one from that day on. Do you know what she said to me afterwards as I was laying there? She said, 'I didn't want it to get all over you... you were really backed up baby.' .....damn, I love her.
For me, you can almost get a feel as just how freaky they will go. Usually, from my experience, a chic with a smoking body, and ok face, with brains, is usually pretty wild with the sex play, and the ones with the model looks, are pretty reserved no matter how much you get them off. There's always exceptions of course. I met, and dated an incredible, INCREDIBLE, looking woman in the past, and felt that she would be pretty good in bed. Only to find out after we got naked that she was into the bondage, cuffs, and saran wrapping... I got totally turned off after she broke out the bondage magazines. Another one I met, she was cute as hell, we both got really drunk and I was able to get some anal, which was cool.
she said I was her first anal experience, which was pretty hip.... then again, I've dated hot looking babes, who refused to bob the knob, which is the least they can do, THE least.... there's exceptions. ...but usually the ones with the girl next door looks, and hot bodies, they are my favorites. They say, everyone has a double in life. Then my gf's double is Bambi Woods, ...a pregnant looking Bambi Woods that is.
I mentioned that, go for what you want out of a woman... this may sound crude but, when I was married, my ex-wife never gobbled the goo.. I mean, I gobbled hers and women c*m A LOT when you eat them. I swore that I would find me a woman that would have no problem with gobbling the goo..... and when I met my gf, I thought she is too good looking to do that. Our first sexual experience was her giving me some love downstairs. As always in the past, I had to let my ex-wife know when I was about to blow a load.. so when that state of euphoria swept over me, I let her know, she did not budge, she took it like a pro, and I was in heaven. She did spit though...I knew, she was the one from that day on. Do you know what she said to me afterwards as I was laying there? She said, 'I didn't want it to get all over you... you were really backed up baby.' .....damn, I love her.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
a good look to me isnt just her smiling, which is always good though, but i dunno, i just get a feeling when a girl looks at me and i can tell if shes interested, it works out most of the time for me
Walden
Master Don Juan
Hmm if she exists asa physical reality rather than in potentia or as an unresolved postualte or a hypothetical or uncollapsed prabability waveform I go for her.
Simple you are the prize, she must she show you that she is worthy of winning you over. For me a girl has to show that she is a few steps above the rest. I get a feel for that with the first 5 minutes and whether or not I decide to further things depends on how she strikes me as a person.
-Grey Fox
-Grey Fox
It's close to the things mentioned above.
1) Body, neatness
2) No swearing
3) Some goals in life
4) Interest in me
Body, neatness are just a check if she's affecting the bloodflow to my penis. Not necessarily model looks, but sporty and tight, with a symmetrical face.
No swearing If she inserts bad words every other word, it's a big turnoff. Basic manners are also checked here. It's easy to find out by the way she talks. Usually takes about 5 minutes.
Some goals in life This is where most of them fail to be considered seriously. It's not that easy to find out at the first meeting, but as you get to know her, you find out that she just stays with the flow and really does nothing. She just exists and parties. Ewww
Interest in me is also self explanatory. After finding this site, I have very few problems with this.
Ooh, and she has to go to bed withing the first month
Gosh, now that I think about it, I have pretty low standards. oh well, I'm not looking for a wife...
1) Body, neatness
2) No swearing
3) Some goals in life
4) Interest in me
Body, neatness are just a check if she's affecting the bloodflow to my penis. Not necessarily model looks, but sporty and tight, with a symmetrical face.
No swearing If she inserts bad words every other word, it's a big turnoff. Basic manners are also checked here. It's easy to find out by the way she talks. Usually takes about 5 minutes.
Some goals in life This is where most of them fail to be considered seriously. It's not that easy to find out at the first meeting, but as you get to know her, you find out that she just stays with the flow and really does nothing. She just exists and parties. Ewww
Interest in me is also self explanatory. After finding this site, I have very few problems with this.
Ooh, and she has to go to bed withing the first month
Gosh, now that I think about it, I have pretty low standards.
oh well, I'm not looking for a wife... Big Pimpin'
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She has to have a beautiful face, fit body and nice clothes. Anything less is not worthy.
trajhenkhet
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Sometimes I choose them, sometimes they come after me. In any case I date multiple ladies. One will distinguish herself above the others I'm sure
Chaos-Knight
Don Juan
for me it's:
1.Long hair (if it's short I usually Next)
2.slim Body (wrists,thighs,waist) - 135P max for me
3.face
(hairy moles,mustache,buckteeth,excessive make-up = NEXT!)
the rest is mind/soul personality.
new word for ya : ButterFace
meaning : it's all good BUT HER FACE!
1.Long hair (if it's short I usually Next)
2.slim Body (wrists,thighs,waist) - 135P max for me
3.face
(hairy moles,mustache,buckteeth,excessive make-up = NEXT!)
the rest is mind/soul personality.
new word for ya : ButterFace
meaning : it's all good BUT HER FACE!
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.