How do u be mysterious

[ROOKIE OF THE YEAR]

can anyone tell me or give some example how to be mysteriously confident? I really do understand what it means or how to be that.


thanks DJs

 

[rgeere]

Basically, you don't give anyone direct answers to anything they say, and instead you give them a witty c+f response that doesn't answer the question, yet does give them an answer...

For example ...

-What color do you like?
- I like them all; they're like my children..

-Do you have a girlfriend?
- Yeah, I keep her in a cardboard box; she's the mini variety.


Sort of like that ...

 

[Mojo604]

Usually people who are "mysterious", are so naturally and do not have to act to be it.

Also, if you plan on trying to come off as mysterious, make sure you do it right, because there is a fine line between weird/creepy, and mysterious.

thats what i think anyways, not saying thats law or anything dont hurt me

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by Mojo604
Usually people who are "mysterious", are so naturally and do not have to act to be it.

That's me, and he is right. You must do it in a way that makes girls feel like they want to come closer to you and not away from you.

 

[wind20mph]

Re: How to be mysterious

Originally posted by Mojo604
Usually people who are "mysterious", are so naturally and do not have to act to be it.

Correct! You send mixed signals and play c+f forever. The way that you are pulling her closer not pushing away.

 

[AMF]

The best way:

Say less, smile more.

Simple.

 

[frivolousz21]

this is where I completely disagree with this...Ive never really seen anyone actually succedd with this mysterious thing...most women ive seen say he is creepy.

and why not talk??? I always talk as much if not more in most girls I hit on...why? because I am confident in what I have to say...I dont have to sit and ask her questions and go threw a routine..she may talk more for about 5 min..then I want to have a conversation I can take over with kino and she melts.

next!

 

[baracus]

Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
can anyone tell me or give some example how to be mysteriously confident? I really do understand what it means or how to be that.


thanks DJs

Wear a mask and don't let them know that you're gay.

 

[dearsappho]

Be profound!

Eloquently use words that have fallen into disuse or are heard rarely. Women will hear these and be impressed even at a subconcious level.

Squint the eyes sparodically when talking to her to give her the impression you are qualifying her or study her facial expression. She will wonder what she is transmitting to you and how you interpreted them.

Appear to drift off into an ethereal state when not/after talking to her. She will wonder what you were thinking about and you will be in her thoughts.

You get the idea...

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
this is where I completely disagree with this...Ive never really seen anyone actually succedd with this mysterious thing...most women ive seen say he is creepy.

That's because the ones who creep girls out fail to radiate an aura that creates intimacy and instead create distance. If you are going to be mysterious, you should do it in a way that teases the girl and makes her more curious about you.

 

[frivolousz21]

I see what ur saying...I talked to a female friend about it this morning after I saw this topic..she pretty much said what u said.

I couldnt even try to be that guy..I explode with excitement and passion...kinda like a Tom Arnold. id like to see this done sometime..I will look for it at a bar next time im out.

 

[Mojo604]

Originally posted by rgeere
That's me, and he is right. You must do it in a way that makes girls feel like they want to come closer to you and not away from you.

The reason I know is because thats me also.

Originally posted by dearsappho
Be profound!

Eloquently use words that have fallen into disuse or are heard rarely. Women will hear these and be impressed even at a subconcious level.

Squint the eyes sparodically when talking to her to give her the impression you are qualifying her or study her facial expression. She will wonder what she is transmitting to you and how you interpreted them.

Appear to drift off into an ethereal state when not/after talking to her. She will wonder what you were thinking about and you will be in her thoughts.

You get the idea...

You must be speaking from experience, because this sounds corect. The bold part specially... Ive done that several times before, and the female usually goes out of her way to ask me what im thinking about. thats just something ive noticed...

 

[Mojo604]

Originally posted by AMF
The best way:

Say less, smile more.

Simple.

So true.

 

[MindOverMatter]

Mysterious is a wrong way to go. Few people know how to pull it off without coming off as shy, and end up f*cking themselves out of getting a girl.

Just be an overall good guy, outgoing, friendly to everyone, without doing anything that makes you look like a doormat.

 

[squirrels]

Just don't offer up your life story.

The problem with some dudes is they just blow their emotional load all over a girl on the first date.

People like to talk about themselves. Ask HER questions about HER, let her yammer, and try to find similar stories or anecdotes. Stay away from negative stuff and don't volunteer much more than a blurb here and there unless she asks. And even then, tell her only what you think she needs to know.

Summary: Be subtle and avoid "TMI".

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by squirrels


Summary: Be subtle and avoid "TMI".

TMI?

 

[quest]

Originally posted by Fatality
TMI?

too much information (i assume)

 

[Microphone Fiend]

don't tell the police where you hid the bodies













read the bible you lazy fvck

 

[Julian]

Appear to drift off into an ethereal state when not/after talking to her. She will wonder what you were thinking about and you will be in her thoughts.

i like that.

 

[spidersense]

Originally posted by rgeere
Basically, you don't give anyone direct answers to anything they say, and instead you give them a witty c+f response that doesn't answer the question, yet does give them an answer...

For example ...

-What color do you like?
- I like them all; they're like my children..

-Do you have a girlfriend?
- Yeah, I keep her in a cardboard box; she's the mini variety.


Sort of like that ...

that's the basics of being mysterious, don't give direct answers until you have to. that means if I just plain can't think of an indirect answer, or if not giving a direct answer would come off as trying to avoid the questioin.