"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how do u ask...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Perhaps you seek it in foreign vernacular?
Freetranslation.com gives us:
Quel est votre nom ? - French
¿Qué es su nombre? - Spanish
Was ist Ihr Name? - German
Che è il suo nome? - Italian
There are other languages, but my time is of the essence and your question unworthy.
Perhaps you seek it in sign language?
Try here
www.handspeak.com
Or telepathy maybe?
http://www.crystalinks.com/telepathy.html
I didn't read much about it, but maybe you could so we don't have to.
Oh, and please remember to check out this webpage too:
www.fukkoffwithyourstupidquestions.com
and for u good sir,, perhaps check this site
www.sarcasimdectectionforidiots.com
Marlimus
Senior Don Juan
or
"What's your name?"
Heather
"Heather what? You do have a last name, don't you?"
simply asking
what is your name
is good too. But, your question is really stupid.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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