"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do the rules apply whith depressed girls?

champagneblonde

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depressed girls?

Guys, Just like you would not buy or ride in a
car that is broken down or prone to problems,
you would not want to pursue or get involved with any girl who is messed up in the head. Seeing it way too many times with my guy friends getting
tangled up in the drama of 'dating' a hot chick
who is mental---great sex or not, you are getting in a car with tires that are about to blow out....
The mental drain in suustaining a 'relationship' with these types will wear thin that initial sex attraction...and women who deal with men from a position of weakness will do 'anything' to 'keep' you. Be careful. Not worth it.
There are plenty of quality girls out there---move forward and keep looking!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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