"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how do respond to 'did it feel weird'

spiker

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Hey guys
Was seeing a girl for 8 months, It has sorta been on and off cause both of us have sorta seen other girls, tho we did really like each other.

At the moment we have sorta decided to do the friends thing for a while

Told her this morning that that I was at the cinema with another girl last night (which is true). She txt'd me this evening asking 'did it feel weird being with someone else'

how should I respond to that question?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Charm

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Tell her, it felt great to go out with someone you have a great time with.
 
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