"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do keep your woman excited in your relationship ?

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Malice said:
I married a foreign woman... I get treated like a king every day... she is always happy.

The wife found my weed stash...She was very mad... She said if she finds out I am smoking weed she will go live with her friends.
:D :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Malice said:
I bought weed again. If she finds it too bad. I'm just going to make sure she doesn't find it.

Hide them in the kitchen where the pots and pans are.. If she's like half the women these days, she will never find them there.
 

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headFirst said:
Hide them in the kitchen where the pots and pans are.. If she's like half the women these days, she will never find them there.

Actually she loves the kitchen and cooks great food every day. I guess that's because she is a latina and she was brought up that way.

I hid it in the basement under boxes where she will never find it. The mistake I made was smoking it while she was home.
 

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Just keep it in plain sight. Eventually, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jpizzler said:
Just keep it in plain sight. Eventually, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em lol.

That might be the best thing to do. The b!tch has never smoked weed in her life. I think it would do her good.
 

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youngmack said:
How EXACTLY do you keep a girl "confused"? Sorry i'm 16 and inexperienced...
To keep her confused, you blow her away with great dates and orgasms, then occasionally turn down golden opportunities to sleep with her, and just when she panics and thinks you are blowing her off, you send her a snippet of poetry.
 

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sinful said:
Id like to hear how some of the men on here in a good marriage or ltr , keep their women from getting bored with them

First thing, change that mind set. Women should be finding ways to keep YOU interested in THEM. If your girl (generally speaking) is not keeping herself in shape and wearing sexy outfits to keep YOU interested...something is wrong.
It is a woman's natural state to please her man and keep him happy. The problem is society has programmed women to be the center of the universe.

I keep my girl guessing, she never knows what I am going to do next. I am also out-going, spontaneous, exciting, driven, funny and I keep myself in good shape. I am close to 40 years old, but I can still get 20 somethings flirting with me. My wife knows this and the challenge of trying to 'one up' the young girls keeps her engaged.
That was the first thought that came to my mind when I read the topic.

How is SHE keeping ME interested? Any nice meals lately? Been giving her best and coming up with freaky new things in bed?
 

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bigneil said:
To keep her confused, you blow her away with great dates and orgasms, then occasionally turn down golden opportunities to sleep with her, and just when she panics and thinks you are blowing her off, you send her a snippet of poetry.
Understood...but what consists of a great date? I mean i went on a date with a plate to the movies then after we got some mcdonalds, chilled there and talked. I think our convo was dull and the date overall was dull.

Nothing i did or nothing about the date itself stood out. I'm sure shes had his kind of date before plenty of times.On our way home i asked her if she had fun & she replied yes but im certain she wasent blown away.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You guys are all wrong ^

Best place to stash a bag of weed is in an old vitamin bottle
 

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All very informative ... in in your own unique ways

to clarify , im not in a relationship , but considered one with a individual so wanted a little more knowledge before hand

I agree that her keeping my interest is much more important , but Its not one sided , I was more interested In learning what we DJ's do to keep women on our toes , and I have a much better idea of that now thank you .

I knew about arguments, physical fitness and being spontanious , but the confusion thing is new to me , and I like the idea of messing with their heads , ill look foreward to trying that out one day
 

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Any girlfriend or wife would like to feel they are important everyday. A simple call anytime of the day to ask if she's okay is enough. You can also send flowers every month or invite you girl to a dinner once a week. As far as I know girls want their man to be sweet and will do things that melt her heart in a good way.
 

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venicemayer said:
Any girlfriend or wife would like to feel they are important everyday. A simple call anytime of the day to ask if she's okay is enough. You can also send flowers every month or invite you girl to a dinner once a week. As far as I know girls want their man to be sweet and will do things that melt her heart in a good way.
Says the lonely woman while imagining some hot guy who used her and never called her back, and forgetting that this behavior repulses her when 95% of men do it.

This stuff only works if you are already in a relationship, and if she is gushing with love for you. Then if you do the same thing again she'll say you were too lovey-dovey and will go cold.
 

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The Game never ends. A lot of guys think that because they're in a long term relationship with a girl or because they got married, they can go back to being AFCs. How common is it for husbands to put their wives on a pedestal?

You should continue to have your own ambitions, hobbies, interests and circle of friends. The relationship should not be the center of your universe. Your woman should be striving to keep you interested (not the other way around).

You have to continue to be an attractive guy and a real prize not just for your woman, but for all women. If a woman knows that you are highly attractive and that you'd have no trouble finding an equally or more attractive woman, she will work very hard to keep you interested.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Lexington said:
If a woman knows that you are highly attractive and that you'd have no trouble finding an equally or more attractive woman, she will work very hard to keep you interested.
You'd think this were true, but control means so much more to a woman that she will feel insecure in this situation. On the other hand, if you can't do this, she will secretly lust for a man who can. The bottom line is men can never obtain the control women have, no matter what percentile they achieve. It's still a worthwhile goal to be the best you can.
 

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bigneil said:
You'd think this were true, but control means so much more to a woman that she will feel insecure in this situation. On the other hand, if you can't do this, she will secretly lust for a man who can. The bottom line is men can never obtain the control women have, no matter what percentile they achieve. It's still a worthwhile goal to be the best you can.
you don't control them. just be the best for yourself. if a woman doesn't appreciate you so be it. her loss.
 
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