How do i win this war?

[Lost In the Seas]

I have been trying to get bcak with my ex, i really do like her, and i think she is still interested in me, but of course not as much as before

right now i feel like im playing this tug of war with her, we are both trying to see who needs who more and who has control in this relationship. When i hang out with her friends i would hit on her female friends, having fun with them while ignoring her, she digs it and showed some signs of jealousy by teasing me or wanting me to stop talking to her friends

then she would get back at me by making me jealous, of course i knew what she was attemping to do so i just show i don't care if she ignores me etc

sometimes she shows obvious sigs of interest to me, teasing me, doing some kino with me, but sometimes pretending she doens't want to touch me, call me cute names etc, but sometimes she can also be very cold and i even doubt if she likes me at all

what can i do to win this girl? she seems like hard nut to crack

 

[babysfirstcoffin]

N E X T


Youre wasting time on a girl that wants you to waste time on her. The more time wasted, the less time with other HB's

 

[Lost In the Seas]

i have no problem nexting her, but sometimes u meet one or two girls that you feel they are worth more than your average effort

 

[Movin on up]

Do you ultimately want to be with someone, who does not feel the same as you? Its an uphill battle my friend.

 

[Lost In the Seas]

she was crazy for me, and i mean absolutely crazy, then i did afc **** and the attraction slow drained out, i just want things to be the same again when we were both crazed for eacohther

 

[Lost In the Seas]

can anyone help?

 

[Zhen]

if you flirt with other girls, expect her to flirt with other guys... so you messin w/ her friends is not gonna do it... just keep cool when she tests you

back off of her for a little bit and give her a chance to miss you...your life doesn't revolve around her so do your own thing... don't see her more than 1-2x a week if it's a ltr... don't think of it as you and her doing a tug of war but you being the bigger person and not letting her bother you

 

[themanwithnoname]

Flirt with her, and when you do ask her out, always make sure she comes to you and always be prepared to have other girls too.