FuturePlayer101
Don Juan
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Going distance didn't make a difference as in I wasn't in touch for 2 weeks, she didn't say anything. Before my silly error, if I wasn't in touch for more than 2 days, she'd check up on me & start freaking out. See the before and after difference..JoeMarron said:This is your answer. You said that going distant didn't help so now you make all the effort to communicate. If going distant didn't help then smothering her with your undeserved attention sure as hell isn't going to help. I'm not going to get on you about the distance because it looks like you were doing you're own thing while keeping her on the backburner. If you want any hope of salvaging this you need to stop all effort. Let her come to you, let her contact you, let her make the plans to come see you, let her spend her own money if she wants to see you. By trying to fix this you're only digging yourself a deeper grave. Oh and read the damn bible. You have much to learn.
I ain't smothering her, I try chat to her once a week or once a fortnight.
I know I have much to learn, I'm stilll young Appreciate the advice, gonna try back off more, let's see what happens.