spesmilitis
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Thread title says it all
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do I tell the difference between someone with herpes and pimples?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PrinceBeavis
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Have sex with them, and see if you get any of their pimples.
....How do you tell? Take that person to a doctor and have a test performed.
....How do you tell? Take that person to a doctor and have a test performed.
Gangster Of Love
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People usually don't get pimples in their genital area. That is the difference.
My Name is Nobody
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I dated this one girl with red pimple like things all over her legs and some on her upper arms. None on the genital area.
They weren't pimples but red spots the size of a pimple.
What the hell were they?
They weren't pimples but red spots the size of a pimple.
What the hell were they?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My Name is Nobody
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I don't think that was it. They were not in bunches like that. They were dark red spots like a pimple but they looked flat and they were spaced out couple inches apart.. and I think they left some scars too. They looked like permanent chicken pox.simon said:
MacAvoy
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You don't, you run in the other direction, why take a chance? Seriously though, the only way is to take her to the doctor and have one of them tested.spesmilitis said:
I had one pimple on my d1ck when I was 18, I was worried as fvck, went to the doctor, he didn't even look at it, he said it was probably a pimple. I think I only ever had sex with 1 girl at that point.
I've never had another on my penis since but I had bad acne back then. I do get the odd one in my pubic hair though.
MacAvoy said:
I had two above my pubic region myself at different times this year. Went to the doctor cause I was scared out of my mind. Just a pimple.
Had one on my upper lip about a year ago that I really figured was just a pimple which i really think it was cause I've never had any more, but My dad freaked out and gave me some of his Herpes meds. Lol
Bible_Belt
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Gangster Of Love said:
That is very incorrect.
Pimple-looking sores can be either follicullitis, infected hair follicles, or a very benign STD known as 'molluscum contagiousum.' All three of these sores will be very similar. Molluscum means 'pearl,' and the inside of the sore will look like a whitehead zit. It is contagious, but painless, and goes away on its own in a few months. You can have the sores curetted off by a dermatologist.
Herpes is not pimples; it is tiny blisters that hurt. Herpes blisters look like poison ivy, a clump of tiny, painful, itchy, fluid-filled blisters. The fluid is clear, not white like a pimple.
TheFlyOne
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Bible_Belt said:
Yuk!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LostAndConfused
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perhaps eczema?My Name is Nobody said:
Ken785
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i dont think herpes looks like a pimple bro...ive had pimples pop up above my lip just like herpes and its just a pimple, even if it heals but leaves a red mark, it will eventually fade away...herpes looks much worse, ive seen this door guy at Best Buy have a herpes spot the size of a dime on his upper lip...you'll definitely know the difference between a herpes mark and a pimple then!
My Name is Nobody
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LostAndConfused said:
maybe.. I'm going to ask her if I ever see her naked again.
comic_relief
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Since I shave, I always get ingrown hairs and it sucks balls.
comic_relief
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Maxtro
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One thing that I seem to get pretty often is insect bites. They are mostly on my arms and upper body. I've gotten an occasional one in my pubic area. I'm 90% sure that the little red raised dots are insect/spider bites. On average I kill about 3 spiders a week in my room.
I recently set of a bug fogger in my room which should get rid of that problem. Hopefully all the marks will fade in time.
I recently set of a bug fogger in my room which should get rid of that problem. Hopefully all the marks will fade in time.