"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do I tell my girlfriend that the sex is too much?

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Our relationship is great right now and the sex is good. It's just a little too much for me. Typically, she wants to do it in the morning when we wake up then she wants to meet up during lunch for a quickie since we work fairly close. We'll do it again when we get home and when we're in bed falling asleep, she still wants another quick release so I'll finger her for a bit.

If I'm lucky and we're having a busy day, we'll only do it once or twice a day. I enjoy the sex but lately I just feel more tired than usual and I'm starting to feel really sore down there. I want to tell her that we should slow down but I don't want to look like a wuss or like I can't satisfy her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Steve-O said:
Our relationship is great right now and the sex is good. It's just a little too much for me. Typically, she wants to do it in the morning when we wake up then she wants to meet up during lunch for a quickie since we work fairly close. We'll do it again when we get home and when we're in bed falling asleep, she still wants another quick release so I'll finger her for a bit.

If I'm lucky and we're having a busy day, we'll only do it once or twice a day. I enjoy the sex but lately I just feel more tired than usual and I'm starting to feel really sore down there. I want to tell her that we should slow down but I don't want to look like a wuss or like I can't satisfy her.
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From what you said, no one could satisfy her for a long period of time! I've been there and yes it is exhausting. How about just telling her what you said here? It's women and she could take it wrong, but I trully believe you should say it. Make her understand that you do want to have sex with each other just not that much! Explain how you enjoy it but too much is ruining it! Just ask for less times per day!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you love her... Be honest! If she loves you she will understand. If not.. Next.
 
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Marry her...that will make the sex stop for sure.
 
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Haha Same problem brah - it's too much. During the summer I was banging this nymph and 2 other plates and I got to the point where I couldn't take it anymore and shut my phone off. I honestly tell her the truth about needing to have some nut in your balls in order to conquer the world. Word it however you want.
 
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Tell her your junk looks like raw hangar steak, and in the meantime get a Sybian machine so she can do the deed while you re-coop.

http://gifeye.com/18538
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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