Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do I tell my girlfriend that the sex is too much?

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Our relationship is great right now and the sex is good. It's just a little too much for me. Typically, she wants to do it in the morning when we wake up then she wants to meet up during lunch for a quickie since we work fairly close. We'll do it again when we get home and when we're in bed falling asleep, she still wants another quick release so I'll finger her for a bit.

If I'm lucky and we're having a busy day, we'll only do it once or twice a day. I enjoy the sex but lately I just feel more tired than usual and I'm starting to feel really sore down there. I want to tell her that we should slow down but I don't want to look like a wuss or like I can't satisfy her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Steve-O said:
Our relationship is great right now and the sex is good. It's just a little too much for me. Typically, she wants to do it in the morning when we wake up then she wants to meet up during lunch for a quickie since we work fairly close. We'll do it again when we get home and when we're in bed falling asleep, she still wants another quick release so I'll finger her for a bit.

If I'm lucky and we're having a busy day, we'll only do it once or twice a day. I enjoy the sex but lately I just feel more tired than usual and I'm starting to feel really sore down there. I want to tell her that we should slow down but I don't want to look like a wuss or like I can't satisfy her.
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From what you said, no one could satisfy her for a long period of time! I've been there and yes it is exhausting. How about just telling her what you said here? It's women and she could take it wrong, but I trully believe you should say it. Make her understand that you do want to have sex with each other just not that much! Explain how you enjoy it but too much is ruining it! Just ask for less times per day!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you love her... Be honest! If she loves you she will understand. If not.. Next.
 
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Marry her...that will make the sex stop for sure.
 
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Haha Same problem brah - it's too much. During the summer I was banging this nymph and 2 other plates and I got to the point where I couldn't take it anymore and shut my phone off. I honestly tell her the truth about needing to have some nut in your balls in order to conquer the world. Word it however you want.
 
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Tell her your junk looks like raw hangar steak, and in the meantime get a Sybian machine so she can do the deed while you re-coop.

http://gifeye.com/18538
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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