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How do I tell her I don't want to have sex?

El Payaso

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For the past two weeks, she has practically slept at my house almost everyday. When I tell her no she can't come over, she'll beg and beg and say we won't have sex. We end up having sex that night anyway and also in the morning before she leaves for work. I like her but I'm starting to feel very sore down there and tired as hell. I could barely make it into work today.

I'm traveling this weekend and she sent me this: I'll like to see you everyday if I could. :) Have a great trip.

How do I make her less pushy for sex without shooting her down completely? I like her just not the daily sex.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Bokanovsky

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El Payaso said:
For the past two weeks, she has practically slept at my house almost everyday. When I tell her no she can't come over, she'll beg and beg and say we won't have sex. We end up having sex that night anyway and also in the morning before she leaves for work. I like her but I'm starting to feel very sore down there and tired as hell. I could barely make it into work today.

I'm traveling this weekend and she sent me this: I'll like to see you everyday if I could. :) Have a great trip.

How do I make her less pushy for sex without shooting her down completely? I like her just not the daily sex.
Tell her that you're sick, tired, not in the mood, having a headache (or toothache or backache or leg cramp), don't feel attractive, "the neighbours will hear us", your mother might call any second, you just changed the sheets and don't want to mess them up, you're having a man-period....Seriously, this is not rocket science. Just borrow a few lines from their own playbook :up:
 

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The sex with her isn't the problem. She is the problem. She is way too clingy and if you don't you establish your frame now, she will control you. Keep her away from your place and say you're going out. You will never get her to stop coming over for sex and staying over when you give in. Don't be a push over.
 

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Tell her you have other sh*t to do and mean it. Stop bein a pushover and shell respect you more. Her pouty fits are a product of your enabling.

Tell her you ain't tryin to bang straight up and it's important to retain your nut to beast the day. No need to sugar coat - stop worryin about hurting her feelings.
 
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