"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how do i talk to a girl i only see in the hall?

Adam B

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Srsly. There is this really cute girl who I see in the hall EVERY DAY. I've chatted with her once at a party, but I was drunk and taken at the time and didn't really make any moves, because my then girlfriend was there. My ex is only acquainted with her, so that's not an issue. It's just that I can't really just approach this chick. If we were in a class together, it'd be one thing. But I don't know if I can just go up to her in the hall and spit game. What do I do?

When I do happen to see her somewhere else, she's with her friends.

I also have to admit that I am not the best looking dude in the world, so that kinda holds me back a little. I have to rely on game A LOT, which is why I'm not very comfortable approaching. Can you guys pump me up a little?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Van_The_Man

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Have you ever said hi to her before in the hallways?/ Does she notice you?

It also sounds like you have a problem with walking up and talking with a group of girls (don't worry man I also share this problem). Though I've also heard it can be easier than approaching a girl one on one. If you want to approach her when she's with her friends then you should start off with talking with one of her friends that's the least attractive to you.
If you can get her friends to like you then she'll fallow.
 

Allurre

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Keep things real simple, your are sweating over nothing bro.

Just approach her, ask if she'll be interested for a cup of coffee when she's free. Why? because you'd like to know her better.

Be straightforward, just do it. You're only shooting yourself in the knee by not making a move.

If you need further help, message me. Btw, I've got a game that can help you through such predicament.
 

jeffthechef

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hmm..next time she passes by..smile..make sure she sees you smiling....then next time she passes by smile again..and if she doesn't smile back...wait one more time...next time she passes smile again..ifshe smiles back giggle/chuckle a bit..nothing dramatic..but make sure she sese you laughing....than next time smile and if she smiles again...after she passes you..go back tap her on her shoulder and say something similar
"hey miss, i couldn't help but notice you checking me out these past few days. perhaps we should cruise this weekend and you can give me a sufficient explanation otherwise i will have to tell my mommy about you and she will call your mommy and they'll have to set up a play date for us" jokingly of course or something else.

OR just say hi one day haha..either way just take action
"you may never know what results come of your action, but if you do nothing there will be no result." gandhi
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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S.Y.L

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Accidentley bump into her in the hall once, then go like, "hey your that girl I met at a party once"
 
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