"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how do i talk to a girl i only see in the hall?

Adam B

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Srsly. There is this really cute girl who I see in the hall EVERY DAY. I've chatted with her once at a party, but I was drunk and taken at the time and didn't really make any moves, because my then girlfriend was there. My ex is only acquainted with her, so that's not an issue. It's just that I can't really just approach this chick. If we were in a class together, it'd be one thing. But I don't know if I can just go up to her in the hall and spit game. What do I do?

When I do happen to see her somewhere else, she's with her friends.

I also have to admit that I am not the best looking dude in the world, so that kinda holds me back a little. I have to rely on game A LOT, which is why I'm not very comfortable approaching. Can you guys pump me up a little?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Van_The_Man

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Have you ever said hi to her before in the hallways?/ Does she notice you?

It also sounds like you have a problem with walking up and talking with a group of girls (don't worry man I also share this problem). Though I've also heard it can be easier than approaching a girl one on one. If you want to approach her when she's with her friends then you should start off with talking with one of her friends that's the least attractive to you.
If you can get her friends to like you then she'll fallow.
 

Allurre

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Keep things real simple, your are sweating over nothing bro.

Just approach her, ask if she'll be interested for a cup of coffee when she's free. Why? because you'd like to know her better.

Be straightforward, just do it. You're only shooting yourself in the knee by not making a move.

If you need further help, message me. Btw, I've got a game that can help you through such predicament.
 

jeffthechef

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hmm..next time she passes by..smile..make sure she sees you smiling....then next time she passes by smile again..and if she doesn't smile back...wait one more time...next time she passes smile again..ifshe smiles back giggle/chuckle a bit..nothing dramatic..but make sure she sese you laughing....than next time smile and if she smiles again...after she passes you..go back tap her on her shoulder and say something similar
"hey miss, i couldn't help but notice you checking me out these past few days. perhaps we should cruise this weekend and you can give me a sufficient explanation otherwise i will have to tell my mommy about you and she will call your mommy and they'll have to set up a play date for us" jokingly of course or something else.

OR just say hi one day haha..either way just take action
"you may never know what results come of your action, but if you do nothing there will be no result." gandhi
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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S.Y.L

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Accidentley bump into her in the hall once, then go like, "hey your that girl I met at a party once"
 
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