How do I take care of this?

[PinchePendejo]

I met this girl at a concert before Summer. We danced and then banged that night. From then on we became **** buddies (or friends with benefits. Is there a difference?). School ended and we ceased contact over the summer besides a text she sent which I ignored. Fast forward to the school year and she initiates contact. We resume what we had before.

This girl has hinted that she wants a relationship - she "jokes" about it, asks why I'm not in one, how many GF's I've had in the past, etc. The thought of being in a relationship with her makes me cringe. Also, the sex isn't the best.

Yesterday I went to a party (had an awesome time) and she sent a text and called me later that night. I ignored both. Ignoring her made me realize I'm not interested at all anymore.

Sosuave, how I handle this? Do I continue to ignore her and hope she gets the message? Do I straight up tell her that I'm not interested?

 

[sylvester the cat]

My friend there is no easy way to tell someone you aren't interested. There is no way to not take it personally.

I tell a woman straight out if I'm not interested. Rips the band-aid off and saves you weeks of circling around lies about how you're-not-ready-but-hooked-up-with-that-one-chick-at-that-party-one-night. Don't give false hope, it's not beneficial to anyone. Just tell her.

lol. and watch how she pursues you endlessly as a result!

remember. women want what they cannot have...lol

edit: people want what they cannot have...if you want to get rid of her, tell her you love her. works for me everytime.

 

[VladPatton]

You pretty much should do both. A new cell # might help if she becomes a Stage 1 Stalker.