"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how do i take back hurtful untrue words said to the woman i love how do i fix it

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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betheman

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did you mean them? were they true?

if they were nasty, uncalled for and undeserving, apologise, dont grovel, tel her you regret saying the things and that it was uncalled for. if she thinks anything of you, she will forgive you, other than that you are f cucked.

Im interested in why you said the things and what they were, people dont just fly off the handle unless...they meant what they said and id so out of frustration and anger at something the other is doing, or, they themselves have problems with their own emotions and have problems communicating effectively
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SecondHalf

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If she adores you, then you need to show her change (as in anger management courses).

However, unless you have temper issues or alcohol has taken you to the dark side, this chick is making you crazy.

Might be better off!

SH
 

rhythmic

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What did you say, and what were the circumstances? What led you to say them?
 
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