"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do I steal this girl

zack77766

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A girl Im gaming is going to Boston to see an older guy. I worry about her but at least I see her regularly once a week. Is she a *****? I suppose its possible that she might have been "paid". What do I do
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You have to learn to explain better. That made very little sense.
 

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How do I steal this girl


The best way to steal a girl is to put a pillow case over her head and throw her into the trunk of your car. Then you speed away as quickly as possible to avoid the cops. Make sure you are armed in case it comes to a shoot out.
 
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