"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do i start a conversation with someone i dont know.

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There is a girl that is my friend on facebook, but, i dont know who she is. I know that she is on my facebook because one day i was at a friends house and she called him, but he was on the shower and told me to talk to her.
I talked to her and she add me on facebook, but it was 3 years ago, and i dont know how to talk to her now cuz it may look strange it could be awkward and my intentions could be really clear, i know that if i make any mistake, it could ruin my chances. I'm not afraid to try anything, i'm looking for advice for the best way to aproach via internet.

I'm a 16 years old Brazilian so sorry for any poor english.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you contact her after this long, she will more than likely not remember you, and it'll put you in a position where she seemed to be too important.

Then again, you have nothing to lose, so I would just say "Hey we met x number of years ago and I wanted to catch up". She's also more than likely a young girl, so she isn't experienced enough to realize this.
 
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You could start a conversation with something like "Hey.. Who are you? I don't remember adding you to facebook? Have you studied with me or something?"

Then if she doesn't remember, you both start asking questions about each other. Then you're on your own =)
 
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