"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how do i set myself apart from other guys?

duke104

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Theres a girl i might be interested in that just started hanging out with my group of friends in the last 2 months. the thing is im pretty sure 2 of my other guy friends also have a thing for her. i feel like im in a damn race for this girl or something stupid like that. i dont make myself too available to her and im always making ****y funny comments around her. how can i set myself apart from the other guys? theyre constantly texting her and giving her attention so im pretty sure im doing the right thing so far...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mr.Freestyler19

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dont think of it as a race REMEMBER you are the one she wants not the other guys....never be afraid that they'll take her from you......REMEMBER YOU ARE THE MAN!
 

thecurtainfalls

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Can't avoid competition if you ever want to land a really attractive, desirable girl... and sometimes you even have to contend with competition for 6's and 7's depending on the situation.

Be yourself... be charming... be cool and collected with your sh!t together instead of supplicating constantly like the others (if they're AFCs). Keep teasing/busting on her and have patience... she'll tire of the lame behavior of the others and will be receptive to your advances if you time it right and the attraction is there.
 

thejerk

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By shutting the hell up about it and taking some GOD DAMN action!
 
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