i met this girl and got her number last week. shes without a doubt one of the best looking girls around in the area i live in. from what i heard guys are always texting her and kissing her ass, telling her how pretty she is and whatnot. what can i do to separate myself from all these guys? i know the obvious answer would be to not kiss her ass, but how can I still show her im interested?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
how do i separate myself from all the other guys?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Ah, there's a classic dilemna. How do you get the attention of that girl that all the guys want?
It's funny because every time I hear a pickup guru talk about this, he just hangs around her, doesn't kiss her ass, and suddenly she's all over him. Lol. This can work, but it's no sure thing.
Supposedly this works because the girl is so used to getting male attention. Then she sees you not giving it to her and she wonders what is wrong and starts seeking validation from you. Problem is, once she gets it, she has what she wants. Keeping the interest of a girl with that many options is tricky.
The trick is engaging her without kissing her ass. I hate to get all generic here, but teasing, kino, C&F, remembering that you are the prize, those are probably your best shots.
In this day and age with the internet and "game" becoming more mainstream, I foresee a future where it will be harder and harder to set yourself apart, because everyone is going to know all the tricks. So everyone is going to be going up to her touching her, and laying on the C&F. You ever see some guy when it is obvious he is running this type of game? Ugh.
It's funny because every time I hear a pickup guru talk about this, he just hangs around her, doesn't kiss her ass, and suddenly she's all over him. Lol. This can work, but it's no sure thing.
Supposedly this works because the girl is so used to getting male attention. Then she sees you not giving it to her and she wonders what is wrong and starts seeking validation from you. Problem is, once she gets it, she has what she wants. Keeping the interest of a girl with that many options is tricky.
The trick is engaging her without kissing her ass. I hate to get all generic here, but teasing, kino, C&F, remembering that you are the prize, those are probably your best shots.
In this day and age with the internet and "game" becoming more mainstream, I foresee a future where it will be harder and harder to set yourself apart, because everyone is going to know all the tricks. So everyone is going to be going up to her touching her, and laying on the C&F. You ever see some guy when it is obvious he is running this type of game? Ugh.
Legendary_Unicorn
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what do you want from this girl? Are you planning on dating her, just ****ing her?
If you do actually have an interest in her maybe get to know her a bit more... I like it when guys approach me not w/ a compliment but an actual interest in something I like. (I play my DS on the subway a lot... so a good conversation about RPG's or something would be a welcome change from just some guy who only tells a girl whose attractive just that... I'm sure she already knows that... she wants to know that you value other things about her...)
If you do actually have an interest in her maybe get to know her a bit more... I like it when guys approach me not w/ a compliment but an actual interest in something I like. (I play my DS on the subway a lot... so a good conversation about RPG's or something would be a welcome change from just some guy who only tells a girl whose attractive just that... I'm sure she already knows that... she wants to know that you value other things about her...)
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What? You already have shown your interested and so has she, you got her number. Just do what comes naturally, call her, ask her out, go do something fun.duke104 said:
If she goes, she's interested, if you keep getting excuses to go out, stop calling. She's already knows your interested, the game now is to see what your both made of. Evaluation and escalation are ya next steps, interest is already over with. Assume the sale. Always be closing.
Good luck.
A. Make sure you're fuking other girls
B. Flirt with her without kissing her ass (Push and Pull. Show her interest sometimes, but not consistently)
C. Make sure you yourself believe that you are different, more Alpha, and better than all the other guys. If YOU truly believe it, she will.
B. Flirt with her without kissing her ass (Push and Pull. Show her interest sometimes, but not consistently)
C. Make sure you yourself believe that you are different, more Alpha, and better than all the other guys. If YOU truly believe it, she will.