"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how do i see 2 girls who know each other without upsetting either?

pikachu_69

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I met 2 girls at a party and I know they're acquaintances now cos they met at the party. I called both this week to set up dates, and whoever agreed 1st I'd only see until it ends cos I don't want to get caught. The 1 HB who was into me said she was busy this week and weits better to meet next week so I went out wit the other 1 who was less interested but as per my other thread, the date didn't go as well as I hoped. How should I conduct myself so that if these 2 find out I'm seeing them both they won't take offence and not want to see me anymore for the stunt I'm tryna pull? I only have these 2e girls at the moment and working on getting new plates but I don't want to lose either of them for the time being to help kill the afc in me. But I feel I'm develloping oneitis so I need to reign that in
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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S. Pryor

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Man these girls would be pissed if you actually landed with one of them and was seeing the other on the cool and they didn't know you were seeing the other. Just be straight up with em homeboy and the worst thing that could happen would be that they just won't be down. There are hotter girls out there anyway playboy so don't get hung up on either one of them. They can either get with it or get the **** on.
 

horaholic

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You're gonna blow it with both of them. There is no fvcking way you can get with both. You arent even close to DJ enough. Pick the one you who has the most interest, and stay on the others good side. If it doesnt work with with one, THEN go for the other one.

Dont be an idiot by getting greedy.

When you have two chick friends, you hit on both of them, and go for the one who either bites first, or the better of the two, if they both do. Once you get somewhere with one, put the other one on the backburner. If you are a badass PUA, and you can get both of them in love with you, you might be able pull off dating both of them, but thats not for amateurs to attempt.
 

Warrior74

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slap your self in the back of the head for me. Stop being an idiot. Pick one and leave the other one alone. Dudes have been trying to pull the "sleep with friends game for ever" if they both know they both know you, and they both know your real name, you're toast because they will talk about everything. A woman's enemy is a woman and best believe neither of them will like you much for now making them have to compete against the other. You can't win this game son.
 

pikachu69

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Ok I'll do what you said. Problem is as per my other thread I called both initially and the htter 1 who was less into me agreed to a date on thursday and as in my other thread I messed up with her but she may still be a little interested if I'm lucky. The other 1 who was more interested wouldn't meet this week and suggested next week. I was basing on how well I did with the 1 from thursday as a basis of whether to put the other 1 on the backburner but seeing as it might be over with the 1 I met should I drop her and go for the other1? The 1 from thursday will be expecting a call even if she's not interested andim consiering not calling again
horaholic said:
You're gonna blow it with both of them. There is no fvcking way you can get with both. You arent even close to DJ enough. Pick the one you who has the most interest, and stay on the others good side. If it doesnt work with with one, THEN go for the other one.

Dont be an idiot by getting greedy.

When you have two chick friends, you hit on both of them, and go for the one who either bites first, or the better of the two, if they both do. Once you get somewhere with one, put the other one on the backburner. If you are a badass PUA, and you can get both of them in love with you, you might be able pull off dating both of them, but thats not for amateurs to attempt.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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