How do I respond to THIS?!

[nvc_wildcat]

"You're good to me. Thank you "

Wait a second. WHAT!?

So over this last weekend I've been pretty much an ******* to my girlfriend.

She wanted to hang out Saturday, I told her no, she asked what I was doing and I was super vague about it. I told her I had to be up really early on Sunday and that was it.

So Sunday comes along and I'm busy again, I tell her I want to stay over and she is super excited. She says she has dinner with family and won't be home until 8:30. I say that I will be there at 8 (I have keys) and if she isn't there at 8:30 I'll leave. She gets upset saying she can't guarantee she'll be there on time.

So my plan is to wait until 8:30 before I leave. Let her feel a little distraught thinking I've already left. Show up at 9 and bring on the smiles. Plan goes off without a hitch.

I fvcked her hard and good, go to sleep, wake up today 5:30am, shower, give her a lil kiss and a titty grab and head to work.

So I'm and work and I send sends me a message:
"You're good to me. Thank you "

How do I respond? I've thought of two choices:

1. But of course, how else would I get you to do my bidding.
2. You're welcome kiddo.

What does everyone thing? (Sorry if this is a little long winded, I'm new)

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Just don't respond. Make her think about you and miss you more.

 

[happyDJ]

Nicely done. But your answers are on a different mindset than what you have done. That's not yet the time to be hot. She's sh!t testing you, clear as water.

"Don't get used to it."
"Cut the crap. Get back to work."

You should answer like a bad boy... Your answers are needy.
It also depends how long you're dating (but not too much).
There's a reason why the beginning of a relationship feels so good.
Keep it there.

Don't forget to do something physical and fun with her every other week, like going out dancing or some sports, or whatever. Keep it quality, fun time. Keep it different. But don't spoil her. Yes, it's a balance, and you should be having fun.

 

[nvc_wildcat]

Just don't respond. Make her think about you and miss you more.

I agree, I will definitely let her wait.

"Don't get used to it." "Cut the crap. Get back to work."

You should answer like a bad boy... Your answers are needy.

Thanks for saving me from being needy, I understand exactly what you mean.
Your response ideas are good, but I will add the smug smiley to give a little reprieve from the meanness. (If you know the one I mean)

Don't forget to do something physical and fun with her every other week, like going out dancing or some sports, or whatever. Keep it quality, fun time. Keep it different.

We're going to an aquafit class on Wednesday! Should do the trick

 

[nvc_wildcat]

*UPDATE*

Waited 4 hours.

Responded with "Don't get too used to it "

She promptly responded "I'm going to make you dinner on Wednesday!"

Waiting game resumes.

Thanks again guys!

 

[thatfeel]

wow what a junk show. the fact that you have to make thinly veiled attempts to manipulate her in such a fashion to get her to do anything for you just says a lot.

 

[Betterz]

wow what a junk show. the fact that you have to make thinly veiled attempts to manipulate her in such a fashion to get her to do anything for you just says a lot.

It's an evil game. If men don't play it properly, we get played. You always gotta be playing the game. Cause you can bet your ass they always are, and will never stop.

 

[nvc_wildcat]

wow what a junk show. the fact that you have to make thinly veiled attempts to manipulate her in such a fashion to get her to do anything for you just says a lot.

While I appreciate your criticism, I must say that I didn't ask, or even expect for her to offer to make me dinner; it's just a happy by-product of the game

It's an evil game. If men don't play it properly, we get played. You always gotta be playing the game. Cause you can bet your ass they always are, and will never stop.

I couldn't agree more, the second you stop playing the Game is the second she'll start to lose interest. I've been there and let it happen. Not this time. Learn from your mistakes, and keep playing the Game.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

wow what a junk show. the fact that you have to make thinly veiled attempts to manipulate her in such a fashion to get her to do anything for you just says a lot.

Hmmm... yeah this thread can be high controversial. She's completely wrapped around his fingers.



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[happyDJ]

*UPDATE*

Waited 4 hours.

Responded with "Don't get too used to it "

She promptly responded "I'm going to make you dinner on Wednesday!"

Waiting game resumes.

Thanks again guys!

Nice. I would have omitted the smiley, and put a exclamation mark. There's a kind of speech which is a good place to be: serious, manly, but she can read the fun side if she wants to.
But your answer is just fine, just keep it mixed, unpredictable. It's good if she doesn't know what you're going to reply, even if it's just two options: mood "A" or mood "B". Keeps her on her toes...

Yes, keep the game running at all times, keep playing better. There are many levels to pass.

"Don't get used to it" is exactly the mindset we want her (and you) to have.

 

[n00bPimp]

Dude you're already fu cking this girl time to switch your focus from what to say to a more long term goal such as looking for other girls.