im tryin to set sumthin up wit this girl but she is just playin games i then i say that somethign came up and that i cant do anything on sat night but friday night im open. she says "hmm... thats a possibility." how do i respond to this?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.