Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do I respond to this text?

Vulpine

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the other day i paid my phone bill at the kiosk at the supermarket They're was a hb11 cutie helping me out and we chatted for 20 mintutes She was smiling and playing with her hair a bunch. I didn't think much of it at the time, but, I got a text the other day that read:

From: 1-076
FREE U.S. Cellular Msg:
Last chance to enter the Shadow Shark Tank
Sweepstakes. For official rules & entry
bit.ly/SSTUSCC. Watch ABC's Shark Tank, Fridays
9/8c.
Do you think she wants me to watch TV with her? What should I text back?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Vulpine said:
the other day i paid my phone bill at the kiosk at the supermarket They're was a hb11 cutie helping me out and we chatted for 20 mintutes She was smiling and playing with her hair a bunch. I didn't think much of it at the time, but, I got a text the other day that read:



Do you think she wants me to watch TV with her? What should I text back?
"Aaahh! Not THIS Friday!"
 

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Last of the Alphas said:
Are you trolling us Vulpine?
Did I start a conversation that you want to have? Or, are you upset because you think you have good "text game" and I "tricked" you into seeing a little reality?

Should I go in to the store and show her the text and tell her I want to watch TV with her?
No, I'm too scared to close in person.
She said it was my "last chance", after all, so I should do something quick, right?
Should I text her back? What? I'm so nervous. It's all I can think about: she wants to watch Shark Tank with me!

I'm glad someone sees "between the lines". ;)
 

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Last of the Alphas said:
If you two end up watching TV together, please do make sure to use protection.
Gotcha.
I'll have my lawyer there filming it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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