"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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viking22

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I had a first date with a girl at the weekend....just coffee and conversation for an hour or so. A couple of hours after the date she texted me saying "Nice to meet you".

So a couple days later I text her saying "Hey. I enjoyed meeting you too. Im busy this week but lets get together sometime this weekend".

She replied very quickly but completely ignored my suggestion of meeting again. Her text was "Hey. Nice to see you too. Have a nice tuesday afternoon".

Im not really sure what to read into this. Is she being deliberately evasive because she doesn't want to see me again? Or is she playing a bit hard to get.

Usually if a girl is not interested she either tells me, makes an excuse why she can't meet, or just ignores the text.

I was thinking of waiting a few days and then asking her out more directly. But Im worried this will seem a bit pushy
 

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WalkingStick

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ask her more directly in a couple days. If she doesnt like you, you can't hurt things anyway. If she doesnt go for it, move on.
 

Kevin Feng

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The problem lies within your attitude, you're too afraid of "upsetting" her. If there's one thing I've learned in pick up, it's to be selfish when it comes to gaming women. You need go to in and take what you want, now I'm not saying be rude or be a prick, but you REALLY NEED to be assertive.

Don't be afraid of upsetting the girl. When it comes to gaming a girl, cold approach especially, it's extremely important to be persistent. Persistence always pays off. There's a difference between being persistent and dominant and being needy.

Use the rule of 3, invite her out three times, if she flakes or turns you down three times, throw in the towel.

Asian Playboy posted an article on dominance a while ago, I think you'll find it fitting your situation.

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/10/sexual-identity-less-talk-more-sex.html
 

COD

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OR ............did U ever think it was your TEXT. Texting is yet another way to build rapport, attraction, etc.

U NEED TO text flirt better!!!!!!!!

simple...........dont complicate it!!!!!!!
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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I don't see this going anywhere. When I read "Nice to meet you," I saw it as "Nice to meet you, but you won't be seeing me again." The fact that she ignored your asking her to meet up again just further supports this.

Just another thread showing that texting blows. She's just letting you down easy. It would have been much more obvious had you been on the phone.
 

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