"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how do i psychologically get this chick to settle

baurman

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so everytime i talk to this chick on the phone she is a very busy girl. always doing school work, she works 2 jobs, goes to college twice a week. I feel that she is interested in me but everytime I want to do something she is busy. I also work a lot of hours too (over 50 a week) so it's hard. I text messaged her "hey beautiful. call me tonite" and it so happened that she was working and she texted me back saying "I'll call you but only for about 5 minutes" and this was because she got the opportunity to call me while she was driving home. once she got home, she told me she needed to finish her project for school which is due. Any advice on how to get this chick free? How should I ask her out? When I see her should I just say "Lets go out tonite after work" also I was planning on telling her "You were in my dream last night..." and when she asks what I was gonna just tell her "Don't worry about it" Is this a good idea? Or dumb?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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reset

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Bad idea. Ask her out, set up a an actual time and place to meet, she'll know what's up. If she doesn't come around, then she may just be stringing you along.

I've learned women don't just come out and tell you what they are thinking. Who knows what she's really doing when she's "busy". She's not with you, and if she really wants to be with you, she will make it clear.

She should be trying to get you to settle, not the other way around.
 

xdreamz

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lol psychologically

i guess make her brain want you or something
 
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