"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do I play with a female player?

Bisco

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There's a girl I know (in my class) who admitted that she was a female player. Don't know how serious she is but I've seen her to pick up some guys.
Now as she mentioned that she's a player, I recall that she tried to hit on me a couple of months ago but I didn't react since I had a girlfriend.

Now, as a challenge, I want to play her. I don't want a relationship and probably not even **** her.
But I still want to play her, she thinks she can get whatever she wants.
I want to play with her but at the same time show that she can't have me (you know the game women plays with you).

I'm thinking of some pull and push-kino, flirting and before every peak I release and talk to her like nothing had happend.

Do you guys have advice on methods and tricks?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Doc Freezy

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an Alpha Female is a rare thing, if indeed she is what you say she is, then you'll have to be quite surreptitious with your methods.

Girls can't be as good a player as men because they have increased emotional capacity.

I would play up her intrigue. Every time you are with her get other (attractive preferably) girls to text you, hug, talk to you in front of her and ignore her. Anything that could make her jealous.
 

BigJimbo

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Female Player! Wow, American broads are now players. Uh, the rest of the world calls them s-uts, tramps, wh-res, etc. Those are the friendlier terms. Doesn't surprise me that they are players in America. Hell, they dress like boys, kick soccer balls like boys, and talk dirty like boys. Par for course.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Female Player! Wow, American broads are now players. Uh, the rest of the world calls them s-uts, tramps, wh-res, etc. Those are the friendlier terms. Doesn't surprise me that they are players in America. Hell, they dress like boys, kick soccer balls like boys, and talk dirty like boys. Par for course.
You are easily the most boring person I've ever had to read posts by. And for the most part I'm not a big fan of America either (don't live there, never will)

I've never heard the term "female player" before. If a girl is hot and she wants to get a guy, she almost definitely will be able to. All hot girls know this.

If you don't even want to sleep with her (I don't really believe you here) then I don't see the point in making any effort with her at all. Whats the point? Why waste your time spending time with girls you don't want to be with? I really don't understand.

If you are around each other and she tries to "pick you up", then by just saying no I suppose you win and get what you want?

I still don't understand. I suppose my advice is, don't waste your time.
 

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The only reason a female would be a player is because of a dumb male.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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