I'd taken quite a spill from the ljbf that i got from my oneitis. After spending alot of time on here, I'm happy to say I've finally got the "i could give a rats ass" attitude. I was afc in may, dj by july. it took a while and i had some growing pains, but I'm a better man for it. Just wanted to say thanks to the Masters and anyone else who helped.
I got a quick question though.....a girl that ljbf'ed me a long time ago has suddenly shown some interest in me again i think...it started sunday, when i went bowling with a group of friends. i thought it was gonna be a guys night but she showed up...it wasn't any big deal though. i was myself, and i pulled my usually c/f that i would on any chick now. some dip dropped a 14lb ball on my foot, and as one can imagine i was in alot of pain....i went to the back to try and walk it off. most of the guys came up to check on me, laugh, slap me on the back and tell me to hurry up....but the girl who ljbf'ed me wouldn't leave me alone....it was like i had a little dog following me, constantly asking me if i was ok...finally i turned around and snapped at her cuz she was annoying the hell out of me...she went and sat back down, but routinely looked back at me for some reason. i left early without saying a word to her....monday she calls to see if i want to go bowling on tuesday and i tell her im busy but our other friends are open so why not ask them....she says oh well then she guesses she wont go, so she checks to see what im doing wednesday.....i hint that im busy again and wrap the convo up....is this a renewal in interest, and if so how do i play it? i mean she hott but she can be boring and almost annoying sometimes....thanks for any advice.....
I got a quick question though.....a girl that ljbf'ed me a long time ago has suddenly shown some interest in me again i think...it started sunday, when i went bowling with a group of friends. i thought it was gonna be a guys night but she showed up...it wasn't any big deal though. i was myself, and i pulled my usually c/f that i would on any chick now. some dip dropped a 14lb ball on my foot, and as one can imagine i was in alot of pain....i went to the back to try and walk it off. most of the guys came up to check on me, laugh, slap me on the back and tell me to hurry up....but the girl who ljbf'ed me wouldn't leave me alone....it was like i had a little dog following me, constantly asking me if i was ok...finally i turned around and snapped at her cuz she was annoying the hell out of me...she went and sat back down, but routinely looked back at me for some reason. i left early without saying a word to her....monday she calls to see if i want to go bowling on tuesday and i tell her im busy but our other friends are open so why not ask them....she says oh well then she guesses she wont go, so she checks to see what im doing wednesday.....i hint that im busy again and wrap the convo up....is this a renewal in interest, and if so how do i play it? i mean she hott but she can be boring and almost annoying sometimes....thanks for any advice.....
