"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How Do I Play This Role?

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Tonight, I'm going to a party here at school. It's not the typical frat party setting and it should be a good time.

Out of the group of friends on mine who are going, I'm the only one who is single. As a result, the others in the group want to be "Team TCK" for the night, which is very nice of them, also considering they are pretty decent when it comes to girls. If I start my pursuit of a girl, the method is that I'll open with something witty and will cause a laugh, and the the "team" takes over.

I've always felt a need to work for what I get, because nothing is simply given to you. Watching the "team" work its magic while I just kinda hang out feels different for me. My question is...how do I play up this role so it works?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i've learned from experience that boiz without game or aren't dj's that try to help you get girls ultimately fvck sh1t up by accident. The only thing that they can do to really help u is to guide girls your way and c0ck block other guys. usually when they try to talk u up it just makes you look worse.
 
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I know what you mean AAAgent.

The guys I know here seem to be relatively good with their game, but I don't know for sure. One of my friends wanted to try setting me up with a girl who is about a 3 on the 1-10 scale (because we had a class together he wanted to be matchmaker) until I said NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO lol. If he gets drunk and tries fixing us up at the party, I may have to fake an illness or get out of there for a few. Smoothly, I got out of that confusion by encouraging one of them to bring a single HB9 friend he has and try the plan on her (presuming she can make it).

Aside from that though, these guys seem to know their stuff. As I said before, it feels weird having people talk you up. Like you said AAAgent, it could backfire as well. I feel there are some ways it can work, or so I'd think.
 
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I know it's real early to be doing this, but any more responses would be appreciated. The party is tonight, so I only have a few hours.
 
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