How do I play this one out?

[Jaun_Don]

Is this just **** testing or is she just a flake and not worth contacting again?...

Okay, story goes I met a very cute, random and funny girl (and she gives me that tingle) a few weeks back and we have hung out a lot the other night in a club she was very, very flirtatious and we had a little drunken kiss...anyway she came over yesterday evening and said sorry because she texted me and said she would be over in a couple of hours...well 5-6 hours later she showed and said "hey I brought you a gift" and I said "oh yeah what is it?" and she coyly said "Me...oh and I brought you your fave drink".

That was all fine and we chatted and laughed and took pics of each other etc...but she had to go somewhere...yada yada.

What annoys me is she woke me up by texting me at 6:30 am this morning and said she was coming over...we texted back and forth and she said she would text me when she was outside my place...she hasn't shown up.

Is this just a game to her?, because she told me she was sorry yesterday when I said to her "don't do that, don't tell a guy you are coming around and then not show up for hours and hours".

I am pretty sure she likes me, as she touches me when we talk and told me I was an awesome guy.

I am start to getting a little annoyed here....any advice, thoughts please?

I did send her a text yesterday and said straight up "Cut the games girl or I WONT talk or see you ever again"

I have also told let it be know that I have other options (which I do, I was with a cute girl on Saturday who digs me but had a boyfriend back where she was from) and that I think games are pointless).

I'm not going to tell her I like because that **** gets me into trouble and I had to learn the hard way...she may have been drunk on Friday Night but this girl was holding my hand, sitting on my lap,nibbling on my ears and over me like a rash.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Sorry I did post this in The Mature forum but I thought I would get better views and responses in this forum.

 

[Dillinger]

First of all you shouldn't have let her in your house, when she played you that day. Never tell her if you do such and such I won’t talk to you. Don’t talk about it be about it.

It sounds like your falling for her too fast. You need to slow down and don’t be so desperate.

 

[Jaun_Don]

No you are wrong sorry and what the **** one reply?...no wonder I left this site for ages...I don't need this site, I do just fine without it...

 

[Logen]

i think you're doing ok so far. be stern but not an *******. have fun with her, but don’t take any ****. it sounds to me that she's flaking because of lack of interest or something.

just keep playing it bro and see what happens. have you ****ed her yet? girls that give you plenty of kino and interest one night and then turn cold another do it because you don’t respond with your own aggressive behavior.

 

[Dillinger]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
no wonder I left this site for ages...I don't need this site, I do just fine without it...

Yep sounds like it.


A girl gave you a little attention and your in love.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Dillinger
Yep sounds like it.


A girl gave you a little attention and your in love.

ha ha you don't know **** of what goes in my life...I have 2 **** Buddies at present but one of them I am cutting off because she nags at me too much and I told her we are not in a relationship I can do whatever I want too, the other one lives in another city and comes down every couple of weeks and that's pretty great...this other one i just can't figure her out.

So yeah bro, it's best to get your facts straight before you start saying **** you know nothing about it.

 

[Jaun_Don]

ahhhhhh well, I guess I should share the truth...sadly this girl is an addict of a ****ed up drug but I thought she was getting off it...I don't need BS like that in my life, drink and weed is fine but **** that coke and crack ****.

 

[reyalp]

you take stuff too personally, lighten up.



i'd say just cut her off for a while, be busy for a couple of weeks, then go at it again and start slinging the game.


seems like the lack of contact does something to them. what's the old saying? "distance makes the heart grow fonder", or something like that.

about 2yrs ago i'd laid down the game on a girl for about a week solid and she gave me the LJBF. i played the friend for about 2 weeks and then went 3 months without hanging out with her. i would txt her every 2 weeks or so just so she wouldn't forget about me.
hung out with her again after the 3 months was up, sealed the deal. i've probably moved back into LJBF land since i moved, but she's coming to new orleans for mardi gras so i'm going to throw down the game again, if she's not up for it i'll use her as a pivot.

outwit, outsmart, outplay