"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do I play this? Catfish on Tinder

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I decided again to make a fake tinder with some model's pics just to see how many matches he got vs my own pics.

More matches to higher quality girls with the model's pics. I pulled about 20 numbers and chatted a bunch of girls and deleted the account.

There are actually a few girls I actually want to hang out with from the fake tinder account I made, what are my best options to try and pursue them without seeming like a creepy, insecure guy for using someone else's pics?

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To clarify, I want to text them and act like I met them somewhere without them ever knowing I catfished them or got their number on Tinder. Any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What an idiot.

Don't play it at all.

What do you expect to have happen when you're using model's pics?

When the see your pics they will go "Eeeeeeeew" or get pissed off when you lied about who you are.

Don't be a creepy catfish.
 

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Leprechaun2013 said:
What an idiot.

Don't play it at all.

What do you expect to have happen when you're using model's pics?

When the see your pics they will go "Eeeeeeeew" or get pissed off when you lied about who you are.

Don't be a creepy catfish.
Very helpful.

To clarify, I want to text them and act like I met them somewhere without them ever knowing I catfished them or got their number on Tinder
 

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Ever see the episode of Seinfeld where he got a womans number off an AIDS walk list?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does this make you feel good about yourself?
 

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Jesus christ, you guys are retarded with your retarded, illogical conclusions. It's f***ing tinder, not the real world. You guys take that **** too seriously. I got over 100 matches in a few hours with my own pics, but nothing above a 6, so I wanted to see if I could match the better looking sloots with the model's pics. Big f*cking deal. Jesus.

Anyway, looks like no one here has any ideas.
 

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IBreatheSpears said:
Weak inner game.
Ya brah, it's all bout dat game. Da girls can sense ur alphaness from miles away wid their psychic mind reading powers.
 

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stevo said:
You should hit same girls up from your actual acct with your picture, if they respond or not then there you go.
If this was something else, yeah. On tinder, you can't message girls unless they like your profile. So if you want to get a bunch of HB 8s matching you, you either need to be a model, extremely photogenic, or tall & white.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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All due respect apple, I did give you advice. Never ever let them find out where you got the number.

And yeah, tinder or not it's kind of cheesey getting numbers that way.
 

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well once you get the numbers i would just wait a month or so. Then call them up one by one and tell them that you were going through your contacts on your phone and came across her number. Just say something like you were trying to remember who -her name here- is. Obviously she will have no idea who you are or how you got her number so you just pretend like your just as confused as she is. I personally wouldnt try to make some story up. I would just say "well alright nevermind then. By the way, you have an very attractive voice" she will most likely just say "oh thank you..." and you say "would you be interested in meeting up? this is going to drive me crazy now trying to figure out how your number got in my phone (dont say "how I got your number"). maybe if I see your face it will come to me."

the trick is to just be confident and act like it is no big deal. dont know if youll be able to pull it off but good luck. Im sure if you tried this 10-15 times youd atleast get one girl to meet up with you.

If it works let me know :p
 

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^ sounds like a plan. Lets get it!!!
 

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applegoo said:
Ya brah, it's all bout dat game. Da girls can sense ur alphaness from miles away wid their psychic mind reading powers.
This just proves it.

Good game follows from good inner game. You have to practice both: unless you're a robot, you can't be smooth and charming if you're not confident and what-not inside because you'll be incongruent and girls will pick up on it.
 

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IBreatheSpears said:
This just proves it.

Good game follows from good inner game. You have to practice both: unless you're a robot, you can't be smooth and charming if you're not confident and what-not inside because you'll be incongruent and girls will pick up on it.

Yah, brah, throw out more of da broscience.

80% of initial attraction is looks.

Hot guy with zero confidence, girls will go "awww how cuteeezzz"

Average, confident guy, with yellow teeth "ew that guy is creepy"

Second of all, I'm pretty smooth with woman. Thank you very much.

You're 20. Still young & inexperienced. I won't hold it against you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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