"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do I make the girl wanna talk to me?

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Originally posted by Rint
I'm fine with approuch but how do i make the girl want to keep hanging and talking to me after the first time we meet? I mean i always have to go up to her to talk to her how come she dousnt come to me?
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For those of you with short-term memory loss: this is the topic of the forum, not english grammar.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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God dam it just tell me how to make her wanna talk to me! Dam it guys! **** my grammer dude u understand the problem dont post anything!!! Unless you have advice. Ppl who dont have advice **** YOU
 
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Originally posted by Rint
God dam it just tell me how to make her wanna talk to me! Dam it guys! **** my grammer dude u understand the problem dont post anything!!! Unless you have advice. Ppl who dont have advice **** YOU
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Shut the hell up.

You recieved lots of advice on the 1st page of this thread. How about you quit being lazy and read it.
 
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You make a girl want to talk to you by being charismatic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by AC/DC
Shut the hell up.

You recieved lots of advice on the 1st page of this thread. How about you quit being lazy and read it.
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Lmao, yes. But, I kinda do agree with Rint... I would like to know more too.
 
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I agree with him, this is a forum, not grammar school. As long as you can tell what he's saying, it really doesn't matter. Go bug someone else with that grammar ****.
 
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