Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do I make her first time special? Taking her V

faiNt`

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So basically I've prodded a few times but never gone completely through with it. I know I'm able to tease her enough so she will give it up. I'm wondering what are some good ideas to make it unforgettable.

One thing I know I'm doing is a rose under the pillow for afterward .. her favorite flower. Anything else I should consider?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bonafide said:
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I'm glad you find this humorous but your feedback isn't exactly constructive.
 

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You're over-thinking this bruh.

Couple questions....how old is this girl, and are you in an exclusive relationship with her?

Stop worrying about how to make sure she has an "unforgettable" first time. No matter what, she's not going to forget it. Just focus on making sure she enjoys herself DURING the act (ie read up on good sex techniques and employ those techniques) and that you are there with her after, and everything will be alright. Personally I wouldn't bother with all that rose jazz, but it's up to you.
 

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faiNt` said:
I'm glad you find this humorous but your feedback isn't exactly constructive.

Just take her out before and have a good time (Will put her in a good frame of mind). Make sure your place is clean, smells right. If you want you can do the romantic candles and soft music. Then take it easy on her since it's her first time. If this doesn't make it special for her I don't know what else will. Before you guys start jumping on my back for the romantic ideas. It's not a big deal and it's probably going to be a one time thing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mine was pretty unforgettable .... try a rush to throw the cloths on, kicking the radio on with gangster rap playing and high tailing it the hell out of dodge while some random car headlights are shining on you. Better then any roses and candles
 

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Her first time will always be unforgettable, no matter how lousy or good it was. Even girls who have slept with 300+ men still remember their first.

The rose is a little over board. Just be happy you two are sharing a special moment together. It's her first time so it's most likely going to be painful and awkward for her anyway. The best way to make her first time even better is to just let nature take it's course, and make sure she feels comfortable. If there is ever a moment of awkwardness then you two should just laugh about it and it's something you two can talk about later. Just be supportive, be comfortable, and don't be too demanding. Trust me, she is just as nervous about it as you are.
 

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Bonafide said:
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I had the same reaction as soon as i saw the rose comment...
 

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It's funny how you are laughing at that concept, yet it's in the Bible.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16888

Control+f search: "pillow"

"One of the coolest things you can do is to hide a single rose under the bed/pillow. A little while after her orgasm, give it to her. Yes, “No flowers” claim the DJs. Sir_Chancealot gives you permission to break that rule with this technique."
 

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faiNt` said:
It's funny how you are laughing at that concept, yet it's in the Bible.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16888

Control+f search: "pillow"

"One of the coolest things you can do is to hide a single rose under the bed/pillow. A little while after her orgasm, give it to her. Yes, “No flowers” claim the DJs. Sir_Chancealot gives you permission to break that rule with this technique."
Just because its in the Bible doesnt mean you HAVE to do it. Personally, idc what Sir Chancealot has to say about flowers. Imo theyre still lame, cheesy, unnecessary, and corny, regardless if its under a pillow or not.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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