"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I make $400 cash by Monday morning (less than 3 days)?

chickenlegs03

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Basically, I have to make at least $400 by Monday, or face some consequences...

I don't have a credit card, don't qualify for any loans, can't borrow from friends or family...

The only thing I can think of is selling a bunch of my stuff at a swap meet on Sunday. But there has to be an easier way...

I know I can do this, but it is a huge challenge. I get my paycheck on Wednesday because of the holiday (4th of July), and unfortunately, I need that paycheck money by Monday, which is 2 days earlier.

Any ideas?

thanks,
c-legs
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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John_Taylor said:
ebay some stuff?
good idea, and thx, but i already do that as a small side business...

..except, rather than saving the money i've been making, i've been spending it all ;(

at the moment, i have only 2 auctions closing before monday, which won't be any more than $15-$20 total.

i figured if i do auction some stuff right now, a 3-day auction wouldn't end by Monday morning anyway
 

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Sell anything you never use anymore, not on ebay but to wherever you can.

Try to borrow the rest from some friend or sorta friend.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Come play poker against me on poker stars.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You could go to one of those scumbag paycheck advance places.
actually, that's exactly the type of idea i was looking for! thank you for your insight, it is much appreciated!!!

btw, thanks for the poker offer self-mastery...but i think you'd kick my arse

Mystic said:
sell an organ on the asian black market.
why the "asian" black market, lol?
 

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Tsk tsk tsk, mafias after you now eh?
Poor guy


Try asking friends to let you borrow money.. maybe between four people you know a nd ask each for a 100 or 8 people for 50 o_O
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No. The best way would be the cash before paycheck thing.
 
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