"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I look?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Eulogy

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
He is 15 years old. What is he doing here?
What does that have to do with anything?
 

darkstone

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I'm uh 16. The age thing didn't update itself and be damned if I'm going to change it.

You know laziness and all that jazz.

I have no muscle whatsoever. I am teh weak.

The funny thing is that my ethnicity is white. It's just that I'm outside a lot so I got a tan (sort of). The strange thing is that some people think I'm asian.

Anyway, thanks for your tips guys.

Edit: I got around to changing it.
 
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