How do I let a woman know I'm not her attention squeeze?

[petah2001]

I've been hanging out with this girl at school since september. This girl is what I would consider total knockout HB9 (perfect in my books though) and totally my type. The big problem is she had a long term boyfriend.

This never stops her from returning my flirts with very little subtlety. For example the other day she was showing me around campus and we kinda got lost in some alleys, and she said she just brought me here so she could rape me (dorky sense of humor, I love it). Being the sucker that I am I always go with it, and eventually we get past all subtlety. Now whenever she walks places around campus she wants me to go with her and she wants me to compliment her and continue this flirting spree (i resist giving her comments 95% of the time).

Of course back to the big problem, I don't think she's gonna break up with her boyfriend anytime soon and she enjoys our current relationship far too much and to be honest so do I, but in the long run I'll just get hurt, unlike her. I need some way of making it clear that I'm not her #2 man and will not just tag along to her hearts content. The option of not hanging out with her is not an option because she's in most of my classes and is my partner for a project.

 

[Kev07]

next time she says some comment like she is going to rape you, say something like
"better take off your pants soon before the girl over there gets me" and walk away

 

[rrrrr]

I've been hanging out with this girl at school since september. This girl is what I would consider total knockout HB9 (perfect in my books though) and totally my type. The big problem is she had a long term boyfriend.

This never stops her from returning my flirts with very little subtlety. For example the other day she was showing me around campus and we kinda got lost in some alleys, and she said she just brought me here so she could rape me (dorky sense of humor, I love it). Being the sucker that I am I always go with it, and eventually we get past all subtlety. Now whenever she walks places around campus she wants me to go with her and she wants me to compliment her and continue this flirting spree (i resist giving her comments 95% of the time).

Of course back to the big problem, I don't think she's gonna break up with her boyfriend anytime soon and she enjoys our current relationship far too much and to be honest so do I, but in the long run I'll just get hurt, unlike her. I need some way of making it clear that I'm not her #2 man and will not just tag along to her hearts content. The option of not hanging out with her is not an option because she's in most of my classes and is my partner for a project.

Stop going with her around the school! She's a freaking attention *****! Stop flirting with her! Ask her if she has any friends she can hook you up with or something, don't just follow her around like a lapdog and get oneitis for her, which you run the risk of doing.

 

[JPFromTally]

I think Paris Hilton has a little dog that she carries around in her purse. It goes wherever she goes and does everything Paris tells her to do. Now Paris even dresses the little dog in cute little outfits, too.