Dayum itz jee
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Is there a way to know if shes interested or not? Can someone List all the ways to tell if shes interested or not? It will help all the Newbs like me...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How do i know if she is interested or not?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
It's quite simple. If she is blowing your phone up, wanting to hang out, and saying all of the right things--she's interesed.
If she demonstrates flakey behavior: Not returning phone calls, being neutral, not making herself accessible to hang out, and then you procede to get bad gut feelings. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED OR SHE HAS REPLACED YOU WITH ANOTHER MALE!
See, it's not rocket science!
If she demonstrates flakey behavior: Not returning phone calls, being neutral, not making herself accessible to hang out, and then you procede to get bad gut feelings. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED OR SHE HAS REPLACED YOU WITH ANOTHER MALE!
See, it's not rocket science!
Dayum itz jee
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Word She calls me like 5 times a day and i ask "why do you keep on bothering me" and she says because i love to talk to you.. and I asked her out to the beach next week and she says of course... and yesterday she asked to go to beach with me at 1 at night but i assed out... so i didn't but today i think shes losing interest in me but i'm not sure...
BBX
Master Don Juan
Flaking on a girl that already likes you to the point where she calls you 5 times a day is a shurefire way of getting her more attracted.
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
chevelle said:
Possibly, but thats not neccessarily true, this whole board is about getting game an guile, you think chicks dont have it too? you think they dont know what were up 2?
Some girls can tell when guys have "game" so they play the same ones, leading to a huge game of cat an mouse, which may mean that landing the object of desire will take a little longer.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If she swallows after giving you head, she's definitely interested.
Seriously, just ask her to meet you somewhere so that you can do something together. If she agrees, she's interested.
Seriously, just ask her to meet you somewhere so that you can do something together. If she agrees, she's interested.
nonchalant
Senior Don Juan
How to tell if she's Interested
by David DeAngelo
OK, I have a quick trick question for you. That's right, I said a quick TRICK question. How can you tell if a woman is interested in you?
Dating Tips: How To Tell If She's Interested
-By David DeAngelo
OK, I have a quick trick question for you.
That's right, I said a quick TRICK question.
How can you tell if a woman is interested in you?
Answer quickly.
So what gives?
Why am I asking you a trick question?
Simple.
Because I'm trying to make you THINK.
I'm sure that, just like me, you've read a hundred dating tips and articles that say things like:
"If she tilts her head to one side and strokes
her neck, that's a sign of interest..."
"If she licks her lips in a longing fashion,
that means she's interested in you..."
"If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact,
and touches you often, then she likes you..."
DUH!
I remember when I first read all this stuff.
I thought to myself "Wow, cool! I must have been missing these hints because I didn't know to look for them. Now I'll know when a woman is interested in me...".
Well, there was ONE SMALL problem...
The problem is that women display these MAJOR INTEREST signals in about 1 of 1,000 interactions with men...
And there was one BIG problem...
That problem was that none of the damn dating tips I read said a single thing about how to MAKE women give you these signals.
In other words, what I realized is that average guys like me who don't get "approached" by women need to learn not only WHAT to look for, but, more importantly, how to actually CREATE ATTRACTION in women so they GAVE me these signals in the FIRST PLACE.
So let me share with you some dating tips on how to MAKE women feel ATTRACTION for you... and then I'll share some ideas on what to LOOK FOR to tell if a woman is interested.
And my ideas will be a WEEEEEE BIT different than the ones you read in your flirting books.
OK, so you're out at a bar with a few friends, and it's time to meet some interesting women.
You look around, and none of the hot young babes in there seem to be tilting their heads to one side, looking you in the eye, and licking their lips... so you decide to DO SOMETHING.
What do most guys do in this situation?
Either:
1) Nothing, because they're scared, or...
2) Something typical, like ask a girl to dance, or if he can buy her a drink.
If you're guilty of doing these, raise your hand.
Then take your raised hand, and slap yourself silly. Not too hard. But silly.
Here's a thought for you...
If you put 100 guys in a bar with one beautiful women sitting alone, and you say to all 100 of the guys "Hey guys, which one of you can walk over to that woman and do something to make that woman feel a SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you?"... I'd say that
if you're LUCKY, one of them will claim that he can do it.
In other words, for most guys, the idea of walking up to a girl they don't know and doing something that will TRIGGER an attraction is completely outside of their universe.
This is one of the reasons why guys do things like asking girls to dance, buying them drinks, etc.
Now, something you must understand when it comes to women and ATTRACTION is that women don't feel ATTRACTION for WUSSIES.
ATTRACTION isn't a CHOICE.
It isn't logical (at least, on the surface).
But once you start to "get it", everything changes. Your entire perspective changes once you "get it", and your results change instantly as well.
So here's a dating tip for you to try:
MESS WITH WOMEN.
That's right "mess with" them.
Tease.
Bust on.
Be difficult.
Why?
Because it INSTANTLY communicates that:
1) You could care less what she thinks of you.
2) You're a fun person.
3) You're unpredictable.
4) You're a bit of a "wild card"
5) You GET IT.
Now, you might be shaking your head right now and saying "That's doesn't make any sense. Why would a woman feel attracted to me if I mess with her instead of being nice?".
That's a good question.
But for now, take the hand that you slapped yourself with earlier, and slap yourself again.
Good.
I want you to STOP following your "be nice and kiss ass" instincts when you first meet a woman, and instead practice MESSING WITH HER.
Make fun of something.
Go to hand her something, then pull it away at the last second.
Shake your head in despair and tell her that she's screwing up her chances with you.
Say something ****y & Funny, then turn around and walk away before she can respond to your face.
Can ya feel me, dog?
Now the good stuff...
HOW TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED
Well this is what you were looking for, so here it is...
I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formula for knowing whether or not a woman is interested in you.
Here it is:
1) You engage her.
2) She engages you back.
Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause long enough that I can finish. You can clap later.
I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish", but stay with me here.
If I walk into a restaurant, and the hostess asks me how many are in my party, and I answer with "Well, there are three of us. I guess there will be FOUR if YOU join us..." and she laughs at my joke, then IT'S ON!
If I'm standing at the bar, and the woman next to me bumps into my arm, and I turn and say "Hey, watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need at least a foot of room..." in a serious tone of voice... and she starts playing along by smiling and moving away from me then back again playfully, then IT'S ON!
If I'm talking to a woman that I met at the magazine rack, and I ask her "What's with that huge purse of yours? You got a dog in there or something?" and she starts laughing and making excuses, then IT'S ON!
In a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is:
1) Stop looking around for signals from women that they're "interested" in you.
2) Stop CARING whether or not a particular woman is interested in you.
3) Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, and watching to see if women ENGAGE. If they do, then assume that IT'S ON!
As long as you use how she's responding to what YOU do as your gauge, then you'll have a MUCH easier time spotting the "she wants me" clues...
...Because YOU ARE THE ONE CAUSING THEM.
by David DeAngelo
OK, I have a quick trick question for you. That's right, I said a quick TRICK question. How can you tell if a woman is interested in you?
Dating Tips: How To Tell If She's Interested
-By David DeAngelo
OK, I have a quick trick question for you.
That's right, I said a quick TRICK question.
How can you tell if a woman is interested in you?
Answer quickly.
So what gives?
Why am I asking you a trick question?
Simple.
Because I'm trying to make you THINK.
I'm sure that, just like me, you've read a hundred dating tips and articles that say things like:
"If she tilts her head to one side and strokes
her neck, that's a sign of interest..."
"If she licks her lips in a longing fashion,
that means she's interested in you..."
"If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact,
and touches you often, then she likes you..."
DUH!
I remember when I first read all this stuff.
I thought to myself "Wow, cool! I must have been missing these hints because I didn't know to look for them. Now I'll know when a woman is interested in me...".
Well, there was ONE SMALL problem...
The problem is that women display these MAJOR INTEREST signals in about 1 of 1,000 interactions with men...
And there was one BIG problem...
That problem was that none of the damn dating tips I read said a single thing about how to MAKE women give you these signals.
In other words, what I realized is that average guys like me who don't get "approached" by women need to learn not only WHAT to look for, but, more importantly, how to actually CREATE ATTRACTION in women so they GAVE me these signals in the FIRST PLACE.
So let me share with you some dating tips on how to MAKE women feel ATTRACTION for you... and then I'll share some ideas on what to LOOK FOR to tell if a woman is interested.
And my ideas will be a WEEEEEE BIT different than the ones you read in your flirting books.
OK, so you're out at a bar with a few friends, and it's time to meet some interesting women.
You look around, and none of the hot young babes in there seem to be tilting their heads to one side, looking you in the eye, and licking their lips... so you decide to DO SOMETHING.
What do most guys do in this situation?
Either:
1) Nothing, because they're scared, or...
2) Something typical, like ask a girl to dance, or if he can buy her a drink.
If you're guilty of doing these, raise your hand.
Then take your raised hand, and slap yourself silly. Not too hard. But silly.
Here's a thought for you...
If you put 100 guys in a bar with one beautiful women sitting alone, and you say to all 100 of the guys "Hey guys, which one of you can walk over to that woman and do something to make that woman feel a SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you?"... I'd say that
if you're LUCKY, one of them will claim that he can do it.
In other words, for most guys, the idea of walking up to a girl they don't know and doing something that will TRIGGER an attraction is completely outside of their universe.
This is one of the reasons why guys do things like asking girls to dance, buying them drinks, etc.
Now, something you must understand when it comes to women and ATTRACTION is that women don't feel ATTRACTION for WUSSIES.
ATTRACTION isn't a CHOICE.
It isn't logical (at least, on the surface).
But once you start to "get it", everything changes. Your entire perspective changes once you "get it", and your results change instantly as well.
So here's a dating tip for you to try:
MESS WITH WOMEN.
That's right "mess with" them.
Tease.
Bust on.
Be difficult.
Why?
Because it INSTANTLY communicates that:
1) You could care less what she thinks of you.
2) You're a fun person.
3) You're unpredictable.
4) You're a bit of a "wild card"
5) You GET IT.
Now, you might be shaking your head right now and saying "That's doesn't make any sense. Why would a woman feel attracted to me if I mess with her instead of being nice?".
That's a good question.
But for now, take the hand that you slapped yourself with earlier, and slap yourself again.
Good.
I want you to STOP following your "be nice and kiss ass" instincts when you first meet a woman, and instead practice MESSING WITH HER.
Make fun of something.
Go to hand her something, then pull it away at the last second.
Shake your head in despair and tell her that she's screwing up her chances with you.
Say something ****y & Funny, then turn around and walk away before she can respond to your face.
Can ya feel me, dog?
Now the good stuff...
HOW TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED
Well this is what you were looking for, so here it is...
I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formula for knowing whether or not a woman is interested in you.
Here it is:
1) You engage her.
2) She engages you back.
Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause long enough that I can finish. You can clap later.
I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish", but stay with me here.
If I walk into a restaurant, and the hostess asks me how many are in my party, and I answer with "Well, there are three of us. I guess there will be FOUR if YOU join us..." and she laughs at my joke, then IT'S ON!
If I'm standing at the bar, and the woman next to me bumps into my arm, and I turn and say "Hey, watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need at least a foot of room..." in a serious tone of voice... and she starts playing along by smiling and moving away from me then back again playfully, then IT'S ON!
If I'm talking to a woman that I met at the magazine rack, and I ask her "What's with that huge purse of yours? You got a dog in there or something?" and she starts laughing and making excuses, then IT'S ON!
In a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is:
1) Stop looking around for signals from women that they're "interested" in you.
2) Stop CARING whether or not a particular woman is interested in you.
3) Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, and watching to see if women ENGAGE. If they do, then assume that IT'S ON!
As long as you use how she's responding to what YOU do as your gauge, then you'll have a MUCH easier time spotting the "she wants me" clues...
...Because YOU ARE THE ONE CAUSING THEM.
.