"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I kiss her?

Buick

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Okay, story time. So here's what happened:
My friend invites me to hang out with him/ his gf/ and 2 of her friends. I've hung out with her two friend before, some fun from one of em, but nothing to write home about.
Were all having fun, I'm gaming both girls, and the one who I 've never really got in with before starts giving me good signs. She keeps talking to me, including me and stuff, laughing at everything I say, so it's going good.
We end up sitting on the couch, she's next to me real close, were playing footsie, and I'm trying my best to push-pull (lol)
Point is, she end up leaning against me with her head on my shoulder, and i keep doing my thing( like were having a 'flickin match', you know i flick her, she does it back, I neg her for being weaker than me lol)
But thats as far as it got before my friend's Gf's dad comes down and we stop and in a few minutes we all have to go home anyway.

So , you think I could have kissed her? I've never kissed a chick before, which is a little embarassing because i'm 16. She's kissed before, but never made out, so I'm thinking we could both lose our 'making out virginity'
I may hang with her again this weekend, and if it goes well I want to kiss her.
i feel kinda stupid for asking, but how do I do it?
Not only how do i start, but how do I actually do it?

Thanks for any help guys
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ Axton

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A good technique is to look her in the eyes romantically for about 2 seconds, then brush her hair behind one of her ears with your fingers, and then gently sweep your hand down across her neck until its under her chin. Gently take her jaw in your fingers and lean in for the kiss.

If you're like talking and laughing, sometimes a technique I use is to just out of the blue say "what would you do if I kissed you". If she can't answer, say "let's find out" and kiss her spontaneously. If she doesn't say that, say the "let's find out", but some variation of it to make it fit a good response.
 

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With your lips. Seriously, as with everything go for it and see what happens. Don't overnalyze and become paralyzed. Kiss her, and see what happens from that. You'll learn tricks as you progress, you just need to begin.
 

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Thnaks for the help!
If I can hang her with her this weekend, I hope to make my move, but I have one more concern:
She's going with another guy to Turnabout (you now where the girls ask the guys). It's no big deal, she asked him like weeks before I came in, and she goes to a different school anyway. I 'm pretty sure she's not that into him, jsut wanted to go because all her friends were. Hell I didnt even know until i heard it from someone else. She never said a word about it.
You think its still cool?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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seriously fvck the other guy (not literally) if you are geting the signs and the vibe, who gives a **** who she is going to some dance with, which means nothing to anyone anyways. if she is with you, then she isn't into him
 

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Buick said:
Thnaks for the help!
If I can hang her with her this weekend, I hope to make my move, but I have one more concern:
She's going with another guy to Turnabout (you now where the girls ask the guys). It's no big deal, she asked him like weeks before I came in, and she goes to a different school anyway. I 'm pretty sure she's not that into him, jsut wanted to go because all her friends were. Hell I didnt even know until i heard it from someone else. She never said a word about it.
You think its still cool?
Screw him, don't give half a damn.

Don't know how to kiss? Read the bible, download the offline version, there is a specific post on how to kiss girls.

Also, remember to keep gaming other girls and making other approaches.
 
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