Okay, the specific questions for you guys are at the end!
Background story follows (it's a good one, it's going to be long but if I don't include the details someone will want them anyway so here goes):
I'm from Ontario and had a sporting event on the East coast a few weeks ago. Four of us on the team went out to get lunch at a bar/restaurant where we met a waitress (call her X, an HB 8). My friend (call him R) started gaming her pretty hard, got her number, and managed to get her to meet all of us at another bar after work (around 5 pm) for one drink. R is extremely confident and funny, and most of his come-ons were lame but the way he delivered them kept her and the rest of us laughing. Things like "It's amazing how your eyeshadow matches your top." and "I told these guys we had to stop in here when we were driving by and I saw you through the window." It was going well, for instance when R joked with her "You must get this all the time I bet, am I being obnoxious?" she said "It's not obnoxious when the guys are cute." and such...
We met her at the other bar asking what to do in this town, small talk, etc. Also asked her if she had any cute friends we could meet. She had one drink and told us she had to go, but would call a couple of friends who are "pretty stuck up" and we'd get together the next day. At this point we're thinking stuck up = hot so we were looking forward to it.
Next night R texted her and we drove to her apartment where she and her two friends were waiting. They came to meet us downstairs and X was now wearing fishnet stockings with heels and looking HOT! One of her friends (S) was cute, HB 7 or so, dressed pretty conservatively and the other one (J) was a babe, like HB 9, crazy tight body, blonde, blue eyes (my favourite), just wearing jeans and a T-shirt and hoodie. X wants everyone to do some shots so everyone does except me, as I was DD.
We then convinced them to go back to where we were staying for the night, and they said they would as long as we have them back by 6 am. :crazy: They kept leaving to the bathroom for little pow-wows and giggled in there for five minutes at a time. Meanwhile the four of us were playing "musical chairs" each time they left trying to sit beside the girl we were each "feeling" more (it was hilarious!). This eventually backfired on us when all three of them sat beside R on the couch while the other three of us were left sitting around the room by ourselves LOL! I was definitely feeling J the most, and I was pretty sure it was mutual when they came back and R asked me my name for her while she stood beside her looking awkward (I guess they all forgot my name, but it's an uncommon one so I'm used to it).
We take the girls to our place and one of the other guys (B) tells me he thinks J likes me, and that he wants S. I was perfectly fine with that so we went to it. She DID seem stuck up but that was only until about five minutes of talking to her. I've been reading the forums and I know I'm supposed to lead the discussion to sexual topics, but I just didn't seem to be able to steer it that way with her, she seemed too reserved for that sort of thing, plus I'm not very comfortable doing that. I did however make all sorts of interesting small-talk, changing subjects all the time and keeping it entertaining/funny. Very few dull or awkward moments...
By this point I had had probably one beer, J had probably a single shot, but everyone else was relatively trashed, especially X, the waitress. She looks over at me while J is right beside me talking to me and goes "You are ridiculously interesting, you two should ****." I mean litterrally, in those words! J said nothing and I go "That's pretty direct." The fact that J didn't say a thing got me pretty hopeful at this point. I asked S for a cigarette and she goes "I think you two should split one" so basically the other two were encouraging J. For the first time, X and S went to the bathroom without J, just telling her they'll be back in 5. By this point X had already made out with I, the other guy we were with, while R wasn't feeling it anymore and was headed to bed, since X seemed more interested in I.
When the two got back from the bathroom it got real interesting, because X wanted us ALL in the same room, so we obliged. I started getting really close to J while talking to her, getting my legs against hers, body contact just trying to get her to get excited. As soon as the light went out I started running my hands all over her and she didn't resist so I kissed her. She didn't resist one bit and I wasn't feeling the whole 4 on 3 gang bang so I said "J, want to go to my room?" and she agreed. Took her there and had my way with her, must've tried to put it in her for about two hours, she was the tightest thing I'd ever seen, I could BARELY put two fingers in her. Never managed to actually fvck her that night, but man she was absolutely stunning with her clothes off, I have no words for it! I got J's number in the morning and B stuck to his word and got up early and drove the theree girls back into town at 6 am or some ridiculous hour. Unsurprisingly R had fvcked I and B hooked up with S that night, several feet away from each other, LOL! Too close for me!
A couple days later I texted J and asked her (actually TOLD her) to come Sat. night and hang out and watch us on Sun. and she said she wanted to see me again before I go but could only do that if she found a sub. for work. Then the next day she got back to me saying she couldn't find one but only had to be back in town for 11 am on Sun. so I said I'd drive her back in time for that so she agreed. We then set up a meeting spot in a parking lot. Not knowing the town I ended up waiting in the wrong parking lot (I only found this out later as she failed to mention there are TWO Sobeys on the same street a few miles apart!). Right around this time she stopped answering my text messages too (I was a little lost and wanted more directions)! I had stopped the truck and when I went to start it again it wouldn't go, LOL! So I call the guys on the cell and they tell me they're already too drunk to help me now, so sleep in the truck until morning and we'd sort it out then.
Now I was super pissed, stranded in a parking lot, and NO girl! I eventually went to bed, extremely pissed off thinking she had set me up. Several hours later, half sleeping in the truck, I hear her calling me from outside! Never had a night go from bad to awesome that quickly before! WOW! She was driving with S and she was like "You went to the wrong Sobeys!" I asked her what she was planning on doing and she said she needed to find a place to sleep and was going to S's house so I obviously said "Sleep here!" She said she'd drop off S and come right back, and so she did. I really doubt anyone's had a better night stranded in a parking lot before! This time I did get it in her and oh man, what a night, she was just gorgeous.
We did quite a bit of talking too and I found out that she actually comes to Ontario once in a while because she has family here! The guys showed up in the morning and got the truck going, and I asked her if she had Facebook. After a good-bye kiss we parted ways, and after getting back home I added her on Facebook. Now I have her on Facebook and haven't said a word to her since. I should also mention that besides being gorgeous she's one of the most refreshingly easy to talk to women I've ever met, and I'd LOVE to see her again when I get the chance. I would date this chick without question if she lived nearby.
SO, here are the questions:
How do I make sure that I hook up with this girl again when she comes to Ontario, or when I go out East (I have this event there once a year)?
Do I ignore her for long periods (months) at a time?
Do I message her every so often? If so, HOW OFTEN?
What exactly should I message her about? What should I ask her/tell her?
How do I keep the connection so I can see her when I get the opportunity?
Thank you!
Background story follows (it's a good one, it's going to be long but if I don't include the details someone will want them anyway so here goes):
I'm from Ontario and had a sporting event on the East coast a few weeks ago. Four of us on the team went out to get lunch at a bar/restaurant where we met a waitress (call her X, an HB 8). My friend (call him R) started gaming her pretty hard, got her number, and managed to get her to meet all of us at another bar after work (around 5 pm) for one drink. R is extremely confident and funny, and most of his come-ons were lame but the way he delivered them kept her and the rest of us laughing. Things like "It's amazing how your eyeshadow matches your top." and "I told these guys we had to stop in here when we were driving by and I saw you through the window." It was going well, for instance when R joked with her "You must get this all the time I bet, am I being obnoxious?" she said "It's not obnoxious when the guys are cute." and such...
We met her at the other bar asking what to do in this town, small talk, etc. Also asked her if she had any cute friends we could meet. She had one drink and told us she had to go, but would call a couple of friends who are "pretty stuck up" and we'd get together the next day. At this point we're thinking stuck up = hot so we were looking forward to it.
Next night R texted her and we drove to her apartment where she and her two friends were waiting. They came to meet us downstairs and X was now wearing fishnet stockings with heels and looking HOT!
One of her friends (S) was cute, HB 7 or so, dressed pretty conservatively and the other one (J) was a babe, like HB 9, crazy tight body, blonde, blue eyes (my favourite), just wearing jeans and a T-shirt and hoodie. X wants everyone to do some shots so everyone does except me, as I was DD. We then convinced them to go back to where we were staying for the night, and they said they would as long as we have them back by 6 am. :crazy: They kept leaving to the bathroom for little pow-wows and giggled in there for five minutes at a time. Meanwhile the four of us were playing "musical chairs" each time they left trying to sit beside the girl we were each "feeling" more (it was hilarious!). This eventually backfired on us when all three of them sat beside R on the couch while the other three of us were left sitting around the room by ourselves LOL! I was definitely feeling J the most, and I was pretty sure it was mutual when they came back and R asked me my name for her while she stood beside her looking awkward (I guess they all forgot my name, but it's an uncommon one so I'm used to it).
We take the girls to our place and one of the other guys (B) tells me he thinks J likes me, and that he wants S. I was perfectly fine with that so we went to it. She DID seem stuck up but that was only until about five minutes of talking to her. I've been reading the forums and I know I'm supposed to lead the discussion to sexual topics, but I just didn't seem to be able to steer it that way with her, she seemed too reserved for that sort of thing, plus I'm not very comfortable doing that. I did however make all sorts of interesting small-talk, changing subjects all the time and keeping it entertaining/funny. Very few dull or awkward moments...
By this point I had had probably one beer, J had probably a single shot, but everyone else was relatively trashed, especially X, the waitress. She looks over at me while J is right beside me talking to me and goes "You are ridiculously interesting, you two should ****." I mean litterrally, in those words! J said nothing and I go "That's pretty direct." The fact that J didn't say a thing got me pretty hopeful at this point. I asked S for a cigarette and she goes "I think you two should split one" so basically the other two were encouraging J.
For the first time, X and S went to the bathroom without J, just telling her they'll be back in 5. By this point X had already made out with I, the other guy we were with, while R wasn't feeling it anymore and was headed to bed, since X seemed more interested in I. When the two got back from the bathroom it got real interesting, because X wanted us ALL in the same room, so we obliged. I started getting really close to J while talking to her, getting my legs against hers, body contact just trying to get her to get excited. As soon as the light went out I started running my hands all over her and she didn't resist so I kissed her. She didn't resist one bit and I wasn't feeling the whole 4 on 3 gang bang so I said "J, want to go to my room?" and she agreed. Took her there and had my way with her, must've tried to put it in her for about two hours, she was the tightest thing I'd ever seen, I could BARELY put two fingers in her. Never managed to actually fvck her that night, but man she was absolutely stunning with her clothes off, I have no words for it! I got J's number in the morning and B stuck to his word and got up early and drove the theree girls back into town at 6 am or some ridiculous hour. Unsurprisingly R had fvcked I and B hooked up with S that night, several feet away from each other, LOL! Too close for me!
A couple days later I texted J and asked her (actually TOLD her) to come Sat. night and hang out and watch us on Sun. and she said she wanted to see me again before I go but could only do that if she found a sub. for work. Then the next day she got back to me saying she couldn't find one but only had to be back in town for 11 am on Sun. so I said I'd drive her back in time for that so she agreed. We then set up a meeting spot in a parking lot. Not knowing the town I ended up waiting in the wrong parking lot (I only found this out later as she failed to mention there are TWO Sobeys on the same street a few miles apart!). Right around this time she stopped answering my text messages too (I was a little lost and wanted more directions)! I had stopped the truck and when I went to start it again it wouldn't go, LOL! So I call the guys on the cell and they tell me they're already too drunk to help me now, so sleep in the truck until morning and we'd sort it out then.
Now I was super pissed, stranded in a parking lot, and NO girl! I eventually went to bed, extremely pissed off thinking she had set me up. Several hours later, half sleeping in the truck, I hear her calling me from outside! Never had a night go from bad to awesome that quickly before! WOW! She was driving with S and she was like "You went to the wrong Sobeys!" I asked her what she was planning on doing and she said she needed to find a place to sleep and was going to S's house so I obviously said "Sleep here!" She said she'd drop off S and come right back, and so she did. I really doubt anyone's had a better night stranded in a parking lot before! This time I did get it in her and oh man, what a night, she was just gorgeous.
We did quite a bit of talking too and I found out that she actually comes to Ontario once in a while because she has family here! The guys showed up in the morning and got the truck going, and I asked her if she had Facebook. After a good-bye kiss we parted ways, and after getting back home I added her on Facebook. Now I have her on Facebook and haven't said a word to her since. I should also mention that besides being gorgeous she's one of the most refreshingly easy to talk to women I've ever met, and I'd LOVE to see her again when I get the chance. I would date this chick without question if she lived nearby.
SO, here are the questions:
How do I make sure that I hook up with this girl again when she comes to Ontario, or when I go out East (I have this event there once a year)?
Do I ignore her for long periods (months) at a time?
Do I message her every so often? If so, HOW OFTEN?
What exactly should I message her about? What should I ask her/tell her?
How do I keep the connection so I can see her when I get the opportunity?
Thank you!
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