"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do I keep the excitement?

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Hey fellas,

I never really had a long term relationship. I had some girlfriends before and I had some ONS's, but most of the time I lost my interest in a girl pretty quick.

Well, about two months ago I met a VERY sweet girl. She's definitely a 9 when it comes down to her looks and she treats me way better and with much more affection than most of the girls I've met before!

Within the last four weeks we have seen each other many times and we had a lot of great sex. I'm still very into her and I think she feels the same way, but now I also feel like we are reaching a point where our relationship and our "bed-games" are starting to get boring...

It's really important to me to keep the relationship interesting and alive... because this girl is very important to me...

...so please tell me: how do I keep the relationship exciting, how do I keep the sex exciting, and how do I keep my own passion for this girl (especially when it comes down to sex) alive and burning?

Thanx-a-lot!!
 

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Dont see her too much

mix things up concerning sex ie ban the bedroom for sex for a week etc.

Do exciting activities with besides sex to bring you closer emotionally..
 

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Originally posted by adamjones
Dont see her too much

mix things up concerning sex ie ban the bedroom for sex for a week etc.

Do exciting activities with besides sex to bring you closer emotionally..
Exactly.

Allow some time to pass so that she misses you and the sex. Tease her and crank-up the anticipation in the meantime.

When you give her sex again, the both of you will be clawing into each other with desire...the way sex was meant to be - raw and passionate.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 
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