"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well,theres this chick in my class that I've been working.I'm never needy or clingy or any of that **** around her,sometimes I go a whole week without talking to her.Well around her I would always be ****y n funny,always accusing her of liking me n wanting me to stick around n stuff whenever she says something that can trigger a remark like that.Well the problem is that I think that I may have been too ****y cuz she seems to get angry when I make some remark n sometimes she would just agree with me,infact shes pretty but speaks lowly about herself especially her appeaarance.I think she may have lost some interest in me,I don't really want her to be my gf or anything like that but I just want to practice my game a little bit on her.Oh,another thing,I slowed down on the teasing n ****yness n low and behold she starts to diss me,wtf?When I told her that I can play it like that too,in a funny tone,she says,"I never told you to stop".I would tease her around her friends and they would say that I like her right in front of her and I would say "yea,I know she likes me"smiling.
Well let me know what you guys think about the situation and how can I go about handling her.What attitude do you think I should approach her with to increase her interest?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sandeep said:
.Oh,another thing,I slowed down on the teasing n ****yness n low and behold she starts to diss me,wtf?When I told her that I can play it like that too,in a funny tone,she says,"I never told you to stop".I would tease her around her friends and they would say that I like her right in front of her and I would say "yea,I know she likes me"smiling.
Well let me know what you guys think about the situation and how can I go about handling her.What attitude do you think I should approach her with to increase her interest?
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What? I don't see anything wrong. When she "dissed" you, she was returning your Neg hits, but why did you see it as dissing?
 
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sandeep said:
Well,theres this chick in my class that I've been working.I'm never needy or clingy or any of that **** around her,sometimes I go a whole week without talking to her.Well around her I would always be ****y n funny,always accusing her of liking me n wanting me to stick around n stuff whenever she says something that can trigger a remark like that.Well the problem is that I think that I may have been too ****y cuz she seems to get angry when I make some remark n sometimes she would just agree with me,infact shes pretty but speaks lowly about herself especially her appeaarance.I think she may have lost some interest in me,I don't really want her to be my gf or anything like that but I just want to practice my game a little bit on her.Oh,another thing,I slowed down on the teasing n ****yness n low and behold she starts to diss me,wtf?When I told her that I can play it like that too,in a funny tone,she says,"I never told you to stop".I would tease her around her friends and they would say that I like her right in front of her and I would say "yea,I know she likes me"smiling.
Well let me know what you guys think about the situation and how can I go about handling her.What attitude do you think I should approach her with to increase her interest?
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OK dude stop C&F seriously stop with this girl.

you said that she talks lowly about herself. Its because she has low self esteem even the prettiest babes with all the bang have low self esteem sometimes. She tries to hit back sometimes but i think you are just embaressing the girl in front of her friends, Which was kinda cute at first but is probebly pissing her off and she doesnt know what to do about it.

The problem with C&F is you can become the dancing monkey and entertain people to much or you can just upset them. Seems a slight case of the latter.

You may be able to pull this back from the brink though.

Next time you see her, talk to her no C&F just talk and drop her a sincere compliment. A real one that you mean, Look into her eyes and say something you really like about this girl. Once you say it keep looking into her eyes and say nothing until she realises you mean it and reacts.

You will be suprised with the reaction you get from her me thinks.
 
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