How do I handle this situation?

[redbullfbu]

ok so me and this 8.5 have/had a thing going, nothing great we didn't hook up or anything but it was obvious it was bound to happen any moment. anyways, on friday in school things were goin well, she was being pretty flirty. later that day i was with some of my buddies at a place jus were kids hang out, we were playing ball and all of a sudden i see her..with 2 guys..in the back on my mind i was screaming to my self "WHAT THE FK" but i was playing 2's for $ so i didnt feel like stopping to deal with it. so she comes onto the court, by herself, and jus stands there for a couple minutes giving me that look like "why the fk arent you talking to me?" now im thinking to my self you know why you stupid girl. so i ignore her and keep playing. she jus goes off with these 2 guys afterwards... being flirty with them..5 min later she screams my name saying hi..so i yelled "shut the fk up". so she txts me asking me why i didnt talk to her..im like you know are you ****ing dumb? and she plays dumb and is like no i dont know why.. so later that night i got fkd up with a buddy of mine, then ripped her apart on IM and she was still playing dumb. im thinking to jus tell her to fk off but i havent talked to her since...im starting to find my self attached to this girl but i know i shouldn't be... i think you all know the feeling. but anyways i THOUGHT she was ltr material..thats why i jus didnt tell her off there...any help is appreciated...thank you.

 

[Porky]

wow! unbelievable. what a *****. you were at the YMCA/youth center/gym and you saw her having sex with two guys RIGHT THERE in front of everybody? ****, that must have been tough to see your not-quite-girl getting eiffel towered. I bet everybody thought you looked like such a fool.

wait...you're telling me she was just there with two guys, who you don't know, and you flipped a ****? even though they could have been her brothers, or cousins, or just her plain old friends, you still thought it would be a good idea to tell her to shut the fvck up when she said hi to you?

this post reeks of insecurity. look at it this way - she went to the gym with a couple of guys, and then decided to ditch them for a few minutes to come talk to you. You ignored her, then cursed at her for no reason, and then got drunk and yelled at her.

I wouldn't even worry about this girl anymore. sounds like you've completely fvcked things up on your own.

 

[redbullfbu]

bro she was man handling them

 

[Porky]

in that case, you failed a sh!t test. either way, you've most likely ruined any chance you had.

 

[Nobody]

You're worse than MrCon and me. Dude, we'd have passed that **** test. How did you not smell that a mile away?

 

[redbullfbu]

You're worse than MrCon and me. Dude, we'd have passed that **** test. How did you not smell that a mile away?

lol kid shut up you have no idea wat ur tlaking about

 

[shydude]

You have no control over you anger. It doesnt matter what she tried to do, tests, or whatever, its High School College or whatever you are at right now. things dont go your way, most guys and chiks are wingman, you should say to yourself "why should i care".. Just have fun, go out, being jelious is playinly sick, couse you always can have more.. I mean my best friend banged my only gf when i was younger, so i beat the sh1t out of him, but then i regret the desision i made, becouse he was my friend, and the girl was just a slut. By the way most of the chiks are sluts at young age, so you have the opportunity to have a lot of women. And remember, dont get into all this serious crap with them, you will regret it, becouse they will probably bang some other kid behind your back.. Most women will try and succed making you jelious, most of us here call it a test, and when you show your anger, and you start talking some psicho stuff, she knows that you are soft,, and she will most likely move on. Next time be friendly, smile, meet the guys she is with, and then steal here from them and go make out behind the bush, hope you get what im saying. have fun

 

[bballkilla]

you should've just acted like nothing was happening. in fact you should have initiated the reaction. you could've gone up to the guys she was with and started talking to them, then greet her. she would be feeling so uncomfortable the whole time, and i guarantee she would start blowing your cell up later that day.

by your reaction you made yourself seem to dependent, and now she knows you're jealous so her plan worked.

 

[Bunk 040]

Man you did what you felt you should do and thats what I would had probably did too. Now that girl probably even like you even more.

Females are insecure too, she probably writing to somebody asking them about that same situation. Now tomorrow play like you forgot about the **** and just talk to her regular.

I used to curse my ex out everyday for like a year and she would call me in the morning and we would be straight again.

 

[Porky]

Man you did what you felt you should do and thats what I would had probably did too. Now that girl probably even like you even more.

Females are insecure too, she probably writing to somebody asking them about that same situation. Now tomorrow play like you forgot about the **** and just talk to her regular.

I used to curse my ex out everyday for like a year and she would call me in the morning and we would be straight again.

cool. let's be abusive to our girls.

redbull, let us know what happens with this girl.

 

[Bunk 040]

cool. let's be abusive to our girls.

redbull, let us know what happens with this girl.

Naw lame I aint telling nobody to be abusive, that's just how me n her got down.

Do your thang, n let me do me.

 

[shydude]

Bunk u need some help. Cursing out women, thats foukin sick! It shows you have problems, your anger and other bull****, if i was the girl dating i would drop u out the first day. Fix the problem, and the chik that acted cool abou you talking to her like probably is a slut, and cares no more than you do about herself.

 

[brwalker91]

off the subject

yeah this is a little off subject but i was hoping someone in my age group could help. i have this girl i really like but she always says that she thinks of me as a brother but when i was in 8th grade 2 years ago she like to rub certain areas if you know what i mean, and tell me she just wanted to see how id react. so i guess what i was wanting to know is whether or not she really was just trying to see how id react or if she did it for a different reason.

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[GaryUranga]

dont freak out when chicks try to make you jealous, just play along.

 

[brwalker91]

yeah thing about that is she wasnt dating anyone but i was .it just all of a sudden she started doing it our eigth grade year in art class but doesnt do it now. and if i bring it up she gets mad because she says she was just
trying to see how id react even though i know shes not one to do that. i know this girl like the back of my hand and ive never know her to do stuff like this. i mean i caneven finish her sentences guess what shes gonna wear the next day get her lunch for her knowing exactly what she wants but dont do it because she doesnt like me doing it but still i know her very well and cant quite get her to go out with me she just keeps telling me that "i know how she feels about that" and "you know my answer" or stuff like " i think of you to much as a brother" which normally means that they dont really like you even as a friend or that they really like you but dont want to admit to it. well i dont know email me back

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