"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How Do I handle the "Busy" bodies?? I just don't know..

Amazin_Aces777

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So there was this girl one time right. She was hot and my friends wanted her she actually did some ameatur modeling. She had this huge thing for me we would kiss hang out and she would turn guys down waiting for us to go on a date (together alone). Finally one night I called her to ask her out by herself and she said she was busy. i pitched a fit and got mad at her and said if she didn't have time for me then it is best we don't hang out and we never talked again. I was sure this girl liked me but how do I overcome this boundary of time management??

I just met this girl and heard that she really is a busy women. So do I demand her time, expect her time, or earn her time, I just don't know....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Amazin_Aces777 said:
So there was this girl one time right. She was hot and my friends wanted her she actually did some ameatur modeling. She had this huge thing for me we would kiss hang out and she would turn guys down waiting for us to go on a date (together alone). Finally one night I called her to ask her out by herself and she said she was busy. i pitched a fit and got mad at her and said if she didn't have time for me then it is best we don't hang out and we never talked again. I was sure this girl liked me but how do I overcome this boundary of time management??

I just met this girl and heard that she really is a busy women. So do I demand her time, expect her time, or earn her time, I just don't know....
You know, i can tell you are the type of guy who signed up on this site for quick fix answers.

You post something up, expecting someone to tell you exactly what to do.

Well, if i was to answer this for you, I'm just encouraging more of guys of your like to do the same.

So, go read the bible.

If you did, you wouldn't be asking this question.

One thing though, getting that mad is pathetic. Lowers your value, won't do good for attracting a girl.

Now scroll down, and click on that little link called "The DJ Bible"...
 

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Lust said:
You know, i can tell you are the type of guy who signed up on this site for quick fix answers.

You post something up, expecting someone to tell you exactly what to do.

Well, if i was to answer this for you, I'm just encouraging more of guys of your like to do the same.

So, go read the bible.

If you did, you wouldn't be asking this question.

One thing though, getting that mad is pathetic. Lowers your value, won't do good for attracting a girl.

Now scroll down, and click on that little link called "The DJ Bible"...
Well I think his reaction wasn't ALL that bad. At least he's going in the right direction. The only thing he did wrong was "catch a fit". Real men don't catch feelings, that's a female trait.

You should have just asked "So when did you plan on making time for me" or something along those lines. If she said "I don't know", then I would've been like "Well, then this is not gonna work"
 
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