"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How Do I handle the "Busy" bodies?? I just don't know..

Amazin_Aces777

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So there was this girl one time right. She was hot and my friends wanted her she actually did some ameatur modeling. She had this huge thing for me we would kiss hang out and she would turn guys down waiting for us to go on a date (together alone). Finally one night I called her to ask her out by herself and she said she was busy. i pitched a fit and got mad at her and said if she didn't have time for me then it is best we don't hang out and we never talked again. I was sure this girl liked me but how do I overcome this boundary of time management??

I just met this girl and heard that she really is a busy women. So do I demand her time, expect her time, or earn her time, I just don't know....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Amazin_Aces777 said:
So there was this girl one time right. She was hot and my friends wanted her she actually did some ameatur modeling. She had this huge thing for me we would kiss hang out and she would turn guys down waiting for us to go on a date (together alone). Finally one night I called her to ask her out by herself and she said she was busy. i pitched a fit and got mad at her and said if she didn't have time for me then it is best we don't hang out and we never talked again. I was sure this girl liked me but how do I overcome this boundary of time management??

I just met this girl and heard that she really is a busy women. So do I demand her time, expect her time, or earn her time, I just don't know....
You know, i can tell you are the type of guy who signed up on this site for quick fix answers.

You post something up, expecting someone to tell you exactly what to do.

Well, if i was to answer this for you, I'm just encouraging more of guys of your like to do the same.

So, go read the bible.

If you did, you wouldn't be asking this question.

One thing though, getting that mad is pathetic. Lowers your value, won't do good for attracting a girl.

Now scroll down, and click on that little link called "The DJ Bible"...
 

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Lust said:
You know, i can tell you are the type of guy who signed up on this site for quick fix answers.

You post something up, expecting someone to tell you exactly what to do.

Well, if i was to answer this for you, I'm just encouraging more of guys of your like to do the same.

So, go read the bible.

If you did, you wouldn't be asking this question.

One thing though, getting that mad is pathetic. Lowers your value, won't do good for attracting a girl.

Now scroll down, and click on that little link called "The DJ Bible"...
Well I think his reaction wasn't ALL that bad. At least he's going in the right direction. The only thing he did wrong was "catch a fit". Real men don't catch feelings, that's a female trait.

You should have just asked "So when did you plan on making time for me" or something along those lines. If she said "I don't know", then I would've been like "Well, then this is not gonna work"
 
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