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Don Juan
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I previously posted about this girl, and how I go about progressing from classroom to date.
Here is the thread:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157624&highlight=guidance
But basically in summary, She's giving me IOI after IOI in class.
So this week, she and I have been getting closer and closer. We see each other everyday. We met on Tuesday to do our class homework, and I wanted to progress, but she had a test to study for, so I let it go easily.
But here is where it gets good:
Wednesday, I then asked her to study on Thursday. She quickly agreed, and then yesterday I was at this conference downtown; I sent her a text while I was in a lecture to study at 6, and she sent one back asking if we can push it up. I told her I couldn't get out until 5, and it'd take me 30 mins to get back to campus.
She sent this text that kind of pissed me off, "Give me a call whenever, and I'll tell you if I am up for studying." I was a little perturbed because it was like the skin off her back to help me study.
So, I actually left early because the last lecture was boring as hell. I gave her a call while she was in class. Then she gave me a call when she got out of class. I asked her if she wanted to come over to my apartment. My roommate was blaring music in the shower (he's gay), so I was like "I'm really hungry, let's go to a coffee shop."
We got coffee and food at this really artsy coffee shop, and we didn't study at all, just talked. Then she mentioned ice cream even farther downtown, so we headed downtown and got some icecream. Walked around beautiful downtown eating icecream and laughing. Then she's like "There's a play back at school if we go now we can make it." We head back and we're like 10 mins late, and the woman wouldn't sell us tickets, so I took her over to the pool hall, and we got really flirty with one another touching each other, laughed the whole time.
It was like 10 p.m. and I was exhausted, and I really needed some help for this test, but she wanted to go do something else, and I was like "We really need to study" but i said it cool, and she agreed.
We headed back to my place. Sat on the floor next to each other and studied for an hour.
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However! This is where I'm wondering what's going on. She kept taking this dude's phone calls. I was like ... are you serious? He called her like 3 times, and they talked like 3-5 mins each time. There was no like "I love you" things or anything, but she wasn't hasty about ending the phone call and said to him "I'll give you a call when I'm done." She said that a couple times. He might be some desperate dude...
I mean, what the hell should I do? I don't want to waste my time. If she's into this other dude, I'll next her and invoke jealousy in her all day in our class while I flirt with other women, which I do anyway... and she gets really jealous.
But I do want to see where this goes, she can keep up with me, which is great because I'm hilarious person, and there are not many girls who are as quick witted as her.
I was thinking about either asking her Saturday or Sunday to go grab some pancakes on Sunday and progress our relationship even more.
I need some help in how I should tackle this situation. She clearly likes me, but I mean am I gonna have to fight for her because I'm not ready to devalue myself for any girl. I'm quite a catch, and I think she knows that. But she needs to realize, if she and I are going to get more serious, she can't be taking calls from other guys that's just rude as hell.
Here is the thread:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157624&highlight=guidance
But basically in summary, She's giving me IOI after IOI in class.
So this week, she and I have been getting closer and closer. We see each other everyday. We met on Tuesday to do our class homework, and I wanted to progress, but she had a test to study for, so I let it go easily.
But here is where it gets good:
Wednesday, I then asked her to study on Thursday. She quickly agreed, and then yesterday I was at this conference downtown; I sent her a text while I was in a lecture to study at 6, and she sent one back asking if we can push it up. I told her I couldn't get out until 5, and it'd take me 30 mins to get back to campus.
She sent this text that kind of pissed me off, "Give me a call whenever, and I'll tell you if I am up for studying." I was a little perturbed because it was like the skin off her back to help me study.
So, I actually left early because the last lecture was boring as hell. I gave her a call while she was in class. Then she gave me a call when she got out of class. I asked her if she wanted to come over to my apartment. My roommate was blaring music in the shower (he's gay), so I was like "I'm really hungry, let's go to a coffee shop."
We got coffee and food at this really artsy coffee shop, and we didn't study at all, just talked. Then she mentioned ice cream even farther downtown, so we headed downtown and got some icecream. Walked around beautiful downtown eating icecream and laughing. Then she's like "There's a play back at school if we go now we can make it." We head back and we're like 10 mins late, and the woman wouldn't sell us tickets, so I took her over to the pool hall, and we got really flirty with one another touching each other, laughed the whole time.
It was like 10 p.m. and I was exhausted, and I really needed some help for this test, but she wanted to go do something else, and I was like "We really need to study" but i said it cool, and she agreed.
We headed back to my place. Sat on the floor next to each other and studied for an hour.
----
However! This is where I'm wondering what's going on. She kept taking this dude's phone calls. I was like ... are you serious? He called her like 3 times, and they talked like 3-5 mins each time. There was no like "I love you" things or anything, but she wasn't hasty about ending the phone call and said to him "I'll give you a call when I'm done." She said that a couple times. He might be some desperate dude...
I mean, what the hell should I do? I don't want to waste my time. If she's into this other dude, I'll next her and invoke jealousy in her all day in our class while I flirt with other women, which I do anyway... and she gets really jealous.
But I do want to see where this goes, she can keep up with me, which is great because I'm hilarious person, and there are not many girls who are as quick witted as her.
I was thinking about either asking her Saturday or Sunday to go grab some pancakes on Sunday and progress our relationship even more.
I need some help in how I should tackle this situation. She clearly likes me, but I mean am I gonna have to fight for her because I'm not ready to devalue myself for any girl. I'm quite a catch, and I think she knows that. But she needs to realize, if she and I are going to get more serious, she can't be taking calls from other guys that's just rude as hell.