"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How Do I get this girl interested in recieving oral sex

Lil Magic

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Long story short, this girl im interested in is a virgin, college freshman like me. I thought it was impossible to find a girl this hot whose still a virgin. She hasn't even given head before or recieved. So anyway, we went out together Sat. night and actually had pretty deep convo. She was like she doesnt wanna have sex until shes in a relationship with a guy who she feels loves her, ect. So anyway, she sees a book on my desk on pleasuring women, laughs and decides to look at it while we continue talking about sex. So, I try steer the convo in a direction that suggest that i'd give oral sex, when she says she wouldnt let a guy eat her. So, how do I go about trying to change her opinion and perhaps get her to experiment with me?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AAAgent

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i maybe wrong but she's probably lying to you. She still might be a virgin but i highly doubt she hasn't given or received oral. girls tend to lie to make themselves seem like the innoncent girl that every guy wants.

But when she says she doesn't want it, you're just not approaching it the right way.
 
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vitor

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You take her out one more time have a few drinks, talk about sex and see what you can do. if nothing happens then you never call her again.. Too easy
 

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you should be talking about getting some head and not giving.
 

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OP, start by getting her alone and in a senusal mood. Kiss her neck, suck a little and then go for the boobs. Gently kiss her nipples etc...if she goes for that, then try to put your finger in her panties. Once you can get there, go for the jugular. Look her in the eyes and tell her you care about her and only wanna please her, make her feel good etc. Ask her if she wants to feel good, this way you are engaging her into what you wanna do, then open her legs (firmly but not forcefully) and start licking! Good lcuk!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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old married dude

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Here's what I'd do:

Don't ask her if you can do it & don't tell her you're going to do it.

Do this. Once you get her naked start kissing her, then move down to her neck, then down to her chest, just keep moving lower all the way to her feet while kissing and licking a little bit. Touch and caress her while you do this. Go back up her legs with the kissing and gently open her legs up and start kissing her inner thigh, then just close in and start licking her puss. Hopefully the sexual tension built up from kissing her all up and down her body will make her receptive to getting oral from you.

If not then, I dunno what to tell you. Personally I love giving oral so much that I've had to next a girl b/c she said she didn't like it. I don't get why some girls don't like it, that's as strange as a guy who doesn't like bj's.
 
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