How do I get the gf type of girls

[Dhoulmagus]

It seems like these girls exclusively date guys in their social cliques or near or from their hometown. Not many girls from my high school class went to my college, so I came in handicapped. I'm sick of getting no play or randomly getting viciously attacked by some slut at a party.

 

[papawapa]

Spin a lot of plates. Its a numbers game. Its like looking for a needle in a haystack.

 

[TheCWord]

Spin a lot of plates. Its a numbers game. Its like looking for a needle in a haystack.

I know the spin plates mantra is over used, but papa is right. Eventually you'll have X number of plates on the go and you'll come to consider one as girlfriend material. Or you'll be in my situation where you'll have two who are GF material. Then you're really screwed.

 

[Arthy]

Anti-Dump's machine

 

[gravityeyelids]

For me at least...it's a very strenuous process to find GF material. I'm talking months of sorting through the garbage girls...For me to be able to place trust in a girl and even think about becoming exclusive with one girl, i need to have screened her for MONTHS while spinning plates to make sure she is what i'm looking for in a relationship, not to mention to make sure she's not clingy or crazy. It's to the point where i just enjoy being single and plan on not getting into any LTR's. If the right girl comes along then fine...i'll screen her for months to make sure and then go for it. But in general i feel trapped in a relationship

 

[foreverAFC]

It seems like these girls exclusively date guys in their social cliques or near or from their hometown. Not many girls from my high school class went to my college, so I came in handicapped. I'm sick of getting no play or randomly getting viciously attacked by some slut at a party.

if you want to meet girls that are gf material and not sluts at parties then you need to start thinking of hanging out in places others than parties, find some real activities where you can meet real people, not the same fake asholes and attention wh0res, join a crossfit or martial arts gym