So I was sitting down, thinking about what makes me tick the other night, and you know what I realized. My issues with women go much deeper than I wanted them to. I keep denying it.
I got a PM from somebody asking my opinion on something / why I am the way I am, and I realized. Most people on here are they way they are because of rejection / women walking all over them. I am the way I am because of murder. However I look at it, it is the one thing I cannot get over or forgive.
When I was a wee lad, around 13 years old and starting to get into girls / etc, I was on spring break with my family. My parents get a phone call that we need to come home right away. My stepdad gets in the car, and floors it home...four hour drive done in two...dead silence.
We pull up to my house and there's police tape up all around the house, multiple police cars, it's a huge crime scene. My brother's ex girlfriend had showed up at our house, and shot him point blank in the back of the head after a heated argument.
Pretty sure that is the reason I've never been able to maintain a meaningful relationship in my life. I don't think I've ever opened up to any woman because I, as a whole, have a contempt and mistrust that stems from that one incident. I've tried to forgive her so I can move on, but I absolutely cannot. Pretty sure if I saw her to this day I would immediately go into a rage and beat her to within an inch of her life.
Anyways, how the fvck does some get over something like that? I feel it's something I have to conquer before I can ever move on.
I got a PM from somebody asking my opinion on something / why I am the way I am, and I realized. Most people on here are they way they are because of rejection / women walking all over them. I am the way I am because of murder. However I look at it, it is the one thing I cannot get over or forgive.
When I was a wee lad, around 13 years old and starting to get into girls / etc, I was on spring break with my family. My parents get a phone call that we need to come home right away. My stepdad gets in the car, and floors it home...four hour drive done in two...dead silence.
We pull up to my house and there's police tape up all around the house, multiple police cars, it's a huge crime scene. My brother's ex girlfriend had showed up at our house, and shot him point blank in the back of the head after a heated argument.
Pretty sure that is the reason I've never been able to maintain a meaningful relationship in my life. I don't think I've ever opened up to any woman because I, as a whole, have a contempt and mistrust that stems from that one incident. I've tried to forgive her so I can move on, but I absolutely cannot. Pretty sure if I saw her to this day I would immediately go into a rage and beat her to within an inch of her life.
Anyways, how the fvck does some get over something like that? I feel it's something I have to conquer before I can ever move on.