Amazin_Aces777 said:
No he probably isn't on this site because he has game of a high schooler. At least I graduated to college by visiting sites like these and through experience therefor at least I am learning!
And JonWon if you say I followed silly advice that is kinda of weird since you gave me advice so areyou calling this site and yourself silly? I don't think so..
you took my post out of context.
Be careful who you get advice from there are alot of AFC's here who think they know the game!
Thats all.
Anyway what i was trying to tell you, since you have not really taken the crux of the post is:
Go and chat another girl up and create more 'options' that way when you approach and talk to girls like this you will not be so hung up about doing the 'right thing'.
There is solid great advice and some very good people that offer it, but amongst them on this site there is about 50% pure shi*e you have to set a filter system for it.
Now i applaud you for putting the effort in and i dont want to take that away, but you must understand you cant stop at the first hurdle or even dwell on what if! there are far more opportunites around also the way your doing things is almost borderline putting the women on a pedestal and thinking for her!
How to do this to get rid of the competition, look bro there is no mother fuc*ing competition! not when you have the right frame, you simply 'next' and move on down the line, this seems like far too much drama.
And my advice as well as some others in your original post was to ring her once see where it goes, NOT follow her around at her whim and beck and call, you should have stated you dont have time to be chasing as you are far too busy with other things.
Or as some other poster said, i think it was last man standing, you should have closed the deal instead of dragging it out and wondering what if and getting to this stage, playing coc* fights with some other dude.
And regardless of game and what the other guy had, he seems to have taken it in is stride, flirted with her and busted on her, whislt you was too concerend about him winning the 'prize' in that when she and him would have been getting along i would have cut out and moved on.
granted you could have amogged the dude but this i beleive generally works when the girl is showing a decent level of interest, this girl seems to be using you and him as a pet project on ego management!
now there are girls that would crawl over broken glass coated in dog shi* good looking or not to get with a certain guy, not all women are the same, now would you prefer to try to win over a girl who is showing about 30% interest or would you rather spend your energies on a women who shows you 80% interest? now you seem to think you are doing things wrong, based on the interaction on one women.
The game is simple and your advancing more then ok, the fear of rejection is a huge hurdle to overcome now lets not take that fear and cling onto the first piece of as* that offers it back to you, you take the experiance and learn from it and continue onwards.
Now trying to win this chick seems counterproductive when there could be another girl who is just as hot a few yards away who would be more receptive, whilst your wasting your time on an ego madonna those girls are passing you by.
I am busting your ball*s for a reason!
